2006-08-07 18:02:29 · 46 answers · asked by fig316_99 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It would be very hard but she probably just got scared.
Give her afew days to think and sort things in her mind and then call her and ask for a reason for her actions.
Maybe it is something that can be worked out.
Maybe she was feeling pressured by you or by family. No one knows what is going on in her heart and in her mind but her.
2006-08-15 11:02:03 · answer #1 · answered by ETxYellowRose 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better find out this way then when you're standing at the alter waiting for the bride to make that walk down the aisle. A no show bride at a wedding is awful.
Maybe you and she should sit down and talk about what scared her off. maybe just the thought of committment with the engagement ring was something she wasn't ready for.
Just because she isn't wearing the ring doesn't mean your relationship is over! You both need to talk to each other and seek out answers as to what is really going on !!!
2006-08-14 23:36:17 · answer #2 · answered by aunt_beeaa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well we all have our opinions don't we? I think you were lucky to find someone you were head over heals for. You are also lucky she did you a favor. She obviously had no character and absolutely no respect for you or your relationship. That was a chicken-c h i t way to break it off. You had no closure and won't until you decide it is her that has something wrong, not you. I'm sorry for your pain and wish I could make it go away...all I can tell you is that time will heal you. I certainly wouldn't get into another relationship right away though. That could be disastrous.. Heal first. I would say about a year before your gonna feel healthy again. If your really young then you may heal really fast...depends, but go slow.
2006-08-07 18:32:36 · answer #3 · answered by honeybee4u2c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a "half glass full" kind of guy, so I look at it this way:
1) Better now than later.
2) You saved $ on the wedding.
3) no attorney fees to whine about.
4) she left the ring.
5) she's not very stable.
6) her loss not yours.
Remember, no matter how bad it hurts now, someone will come into your life and make all the pain seem like a distant memory.
2006-08-07 18:27:41 · answer #4 · answered by Duckjuice3 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
On a scale of 1 to 10, it would be a 9. I think finding out that you had a terminal illness would be a 10.
2006-08-07 18:07:05 · answer #5 · answered by M & R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you woke up to your ring next to you, you missed a LOT of signs along the way. I am about to call off my own engagement because he is just clueless about my feelings and making me happy-thought once he gave me a nice ring, his responsibilities were over.
2006-08-15 14:40:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
almost as bad as being in a 13 year marriage and waking up one day to have him take you out to lunch and tell you that he is divorcing you and moving in with your best friend... At least you did not get married and put a lot of time into it... Sorry about your loss though... it gets easier
2006-08-07 18:08:34 · answer #7 · answered by Just Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better a broken engagement than a broken marriage. Things happen for a reason. Engagements are meant to be broken they say.
2006-08-15 14:33:27 · answer #8 · answered by BLD 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a horrible situation, but maybe the person had cold feet. The person could have talked to you instead of running. Keep your head up man.
2006-08-15 14:26:59 · answer #9 · answered by millium05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well for one Im sorry to hear,but yet sometimes it can take awhile to figure out that the one you thought you loved is not the right person after all.But be glad it happened now and not after marriage.
2006-08-07 18:09:33 · answer #10 · answered by lynnroth25 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋