When I'm on the internet. Thats when I get the need. But, realize what i have done. And i'm angery. I'm mad that I slipped. I'm mad that I did wrong. I'm mad that i know I have lusted with my Eyes and heart. I need help. I ask know this is my weakness. Lord Help. How can I fight this?
2006-08-07 17:58:53 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
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The problem is, the mind is too weak to avoid the porn. I believe it is OK, as long as it does not control our lives. But there are people who go to work tired, merely from the web based porn sites.
To regain the control, just jot down five possible sites to visit over the next week or so; keep to the plan and just say no to the porn.
Just say no to drugs and porn; both are habit forming.
2006-08-12 13:32:49 · answer #1 · answered by Calvin of China, PhD 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well done man, brave 1st step already. I totally agree with a lot of the advice already given here. Remember, your not going to kill yourself looking at porn, we all do or have at some point. But your right, it does sound like it's getting out of control and it will effect your life.
Getting out of the house more would help, and try avoid using your pc too often.
Read a book instead, or do some studying.
Any habit is a tough one to break, but your making the right move.
Just keep it up and work hard at it, you'll feel better in the long run.
2006-08-15 11:44:29 · answer #2 · answered by TK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously, get away from the computer for awhile and go mix with other people, preferably some girl people, if that's your orientation. The human body desires/needs sex -- it's how more humans are made, after all -- and periods of boredom and enforced inactivity can kick our consciousness of the body's needs into overdrive.
Years ago physical exercise was recommended as a way to prevent/reduce use of porn and/or masturbation. It does work to some extent, filling time and burning off excess energy. It also helps buff the body, increasing the chances you will find a mate, so it's a win-win all around.
2006-08-08 03:51:56 · answer #3 · answered by Babs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It has been said that "one way to break a bad habit is to take up another habit, a good habit.' You are a guy and guys like body building and what not, right? Try jogging, now that take dicipline!
I'm old and I ain't gonna give ya no lessons about what this habit is going to do for you and to you. I will tell you, however, that nice girls wouldn't want anything to do with you if they knew it. It's totally degraging to women, nice ones. So the choice is yours, it begins in your head. By the way sex begins there too.Think about that! ( I kid you not.)
While you are jogging around the neighborhood, say a prayer for perseverance while you are at it. I wish you luck...you are on your way to being a decent young man. It can happen if you really want it and I sense you are sincere about making that change..
2006-08-15 13:24:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are forming a habit,you are beginning to associate the Internet to porn, the more you do it the stronger the habit gets.
So its takes some will power, but try this... as soon as the thought comes into your head , I mean the instant it enters your thoughts kill it with another good thought . It will keep coming back but just keep killing it with other thoughts soon the habit will be easy to control. This will take effort on your part but it works, put a photo of you grand mother next to your computer this will help.
2006-08-07 19:15:07 · answer #5 · answered by qantasmile 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of your computer! Next, seek help, immediately. You do not need to be talking like this on the internet, asking this there are children viewing. And I hope you do not bother with under age kids. Again, seek help! Get off the internet and call a hotline
to get out of this trouble you are having.
2006-08-15 14:35:25 · answer #6 · answered by floridagirl2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Early intervention. When you see the early warning signs, take action. You know yourself, you can look at it as a rescue. When you see the red lights, take off. Turn the computer off, and go do something good for yourself. Come to yahoo answers and help people out if you can't pull yourself away from the 'pute.
The last straw - if you get boned up, you let it go to far. Leave.
2006-08-15 12:59:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear friend,
no u r not losing self-control. u just need to take a break.
mix with other people. spend some days without being on the Internet. try to have close friend, hang out with somebody at the nature. get work. try to be busy all the time
2006-08-15 06:17:05 · answer #8 · answered by samantha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get help now. I have a brother in prison because he too liked "all" kinds of pornography. Get help before you hurt some one or your self.
Your family will never trust you again if you end up like him. He will never be allowed to be around my children with out me right there and then if he looks wrong I don't care what type of family function it is we are gone. He won't mess with my children.
I wish he would never get out so I don't have to deal with it.
2006-08-08 14:49:05 · answer #9 · answered by AlwaysRight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have all ready got a huge jump on the problem, being man enough to admit this problem and address it is awesome. you say lord help me you have sought out the one and only source of your recovery. your upset because the lord has nudged you with what you all ready no to be sin. repent and ask your lord for delivery from this lust of the eyes, he truly will never leave you without healing your heart. god bless you my brother
2006-08-13 07:14:55 · answer #10 · answered by rodarball 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋