Me and my cousin want to get pregnant and we are 16 yrs. old and trying to get pregnant at the same time ?

Answer 1

I hope you are kidding!! Very irresponsible to bring a child into the world when you are still a child yourself. Wait until you are married and at least 25 or 30. I had my first at 23 and I wish I would have waited and experienced more stuff before coming to be on a child's schedule.

Answer 2

Don't throw your life away by getting pregnant. You should both finish school, get married, and then think about having a baby. Once you have a baby, your life is not your own. You go to sleep when baby does and wake up when baby does. At first, the baby will wake you every 2 hours at night. Even when your baby sleeps through the night, the baby will wake you up at 5 or 6 every morning. No more late night anything. You will have to take the baby everywhere you go. You can not even eat a meal without interruptions. Finish high school. Enjoy all the things that come with it including dating, dances, clubs, and hanging out with your friends. You will have plenty of time to have a baby later. Yes, you can still get pregnant at the same time.

Answer 3

holy crappers girls are you out of your cute little noggins??? let me tell you my story.... Im 19 years old, im not married, i dont even currently have a boyfriend and im pregnant and worried sick about how its changing my life, i got pregnant when i was dating my ex, who is 25 years old and even he isnt being helpful about having a new baby on the way, what makes you think the boys who you girls are gonna try to get pregnant with will even respect you or your babies? you still have so many things to do before you become mothers, you have highschool to finish, post secondary school, have you thought about your dream job??? im studying to be a forensic scientist, its a difficult concept to grasp without being pregnant already, you girls still have a lot of clubbing to do, and a lot of making out with boys and messing with there heads, when your young and a parent its hard to find a guy that will love and respect you because you have a kid, so do yourselves a favour, be teenagers, be crazy, wild, law breaking teenagers, you cant be a good parent without knowing what your kid is gonna go through first, so DONT GET PREGNANT IT HURTS YOUR BACK AND IT GIVES YOU STRETCH MARKS, and besides do you even know what a placenta looks like or what it is or what its for? if you dont it looks quite disgusting and you have to give birth to it too, its called after birth, some people in some countries actually eat it, pretty gross, oh and another factor if you dont have a painful vaginal birth you will have a c-section which can happen in emergencies, like your baby cant pass through your tiny underdeveloped pelvices and cause you to get a huge scar across your belly, meaning you will never look sexy again in a bikini, anyway just thought i would share my own worries with you, hope you make the right decision if you make the wrong one, i hope you dont get any STD's take care

Answer 4

I wanted to get pregnant when I was younger too and I am so glad that I didn't and that I have never been pregnant, someday, but not now (I don't believe in abortions for myself). My mother wanted to have kids and she was 21 when she had me, I'm the oldest, but she still wasn't ready and because of that I have had to take care of my brothers and sisters pretty much all of my life and I'm only 25. It is extrememly hard to take care of children when you are young and just remember that the babies do not stay babies, they grow up and start teething and then you have to worry about food and cooking and all kinds of other stuff. Yes, you have your beautiful and good moments, but think about the whole picture. You have your life ahead of you, what's the rush. Be all that you can be so that you can be better prepared to take care of your baby and not have to depend on anyone else. Be Blessed and Smart.

Answer 5

sweety i hope that you are playin about having a baby. you are still a little girl in ways. you have alot to do before you go out in this world and have a baby. yes they are cute yes they are so little . but hey we are not talking about a puppy here. a baby is something that you can't playin with with then say ok i am ready to go have fun. when you have a baby that is it no more going out at night or on the weekends cuz who is going to take care of that baby you can't do both. it is really hard having to take a baby every way you have to go . it is hard tryin to get a job. and it will be hard to get a job cuz you can not go all the way thur school and you will never found a good job. and the job that you will found will suck and you will pay more for someone to keep your baby then you can pay on bills. i hope that you will not do it take your time enjoy life cuz there will be one time in your life that you will think back and say i am glad that i did not do this or that or i wished i would not have done this or that so take your time . wait till you are married and you are with someone that you will love forever. but plz don't do it

Answer 6

Wake up are you two crazy having a child at that age is just stupid your stilla baby yourselves think about it do you realize costs an average of 500,000 thousand dollars thats a half a million if you don't know your numbers to raise a child from
birth to just 18 a child is a life long commitment. Think about putting more thought into staying in school going to college or university then when you find that special someone and you both have careers go for it but not now your still growing up mentally and physically also realize this don't think of your parents as doormats to throw **** on. wake up and realize your just not being rational. One other thing your boyfriend at that age is just thinking about sex what I have seen most teenage guys will walk
they are just kids WAKE UP FROM DREAMLAND

Answer 7

ok im not going to say it will be wrong of you to do that, but if you want my opinion i think that it woud be best if you just waited a little while. i mean your still in school right? im not trying to talk you out of it but im just trying to help. ok after you have a baby, you the mother should take the responsibility and raise that baby. But your still in high school and a baby changes everything. ok answer these ok do you have a GOOD boyfriend that will stand by you if he got you pregnant? or would he just run off? a baby is alot of work, but if you want to be a mother then ok, thats your choice, and i hope if you do have a baby that it will be taken care of. Good luck and i hope this has helped you. But just remember this is your choice not anyone elses, if this is something that you do want then don't let anyone talk you out of it but if you arn't sure then just take peoples advices. but like i said GOOD LUCK!!!

Answer 8

I was your age when I got pregnant. Love my baby, but i should have waited. You're probably thiking about the clothes, the places you can take the baby. It's hard work. And then they'res the guy. Will he be around, probably not, he may say that now, mine did to. Your gilz are gonna be at clubs and you'll be at home changin diapers. You can't even get into clubs yet. **** you can't even drive. WAIT!! live your life before you try and make one.

Answer 9

look i have been a mom since i was 14years old its not what you except, it is very hard to raise a baby now,i could tell you alot, i never got to go to my 8th grade dance or go out on dates its not easy i am 31 now and have for kids take your time dont be in a rush to grow up, be a kid not a mom you need to grow and learn think about it,you to are still kids dont bring a baby in to this world until you can fully take care of it with a home job all of your love 24/7

Answer 10

Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait!!!! You are too too too too young sweetie. A baby is ALOT of work and takes ALL of your time. You have not lived your life yet, party, make-out with boys, go to clubs when you are of age. I am trying to get preggers and when I have a baby you can baby-sit as much as you like, you and your cousin...just don't do it hun, live your teenage life, it is so much fun. I loved my teenage life, parties and boys and late nights with the girls, make-up and clothes, prom and grad-nite, graduation day! Trust me, have fun, don't think about having a child yet, you have plenty of time.