Ladies? Men do you watch porn behind your wifes back, why? I'm asking because my husband does it and it really upsets me. Especially because I am pregnant and we cant have sex and it makes me feel unwanted.
2006-08-07 16:53:34 · 13 answers · asked by A. Grigs 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm 8 months pregnant and at high risk for premature labor so its doctors orders that we cant.
2006-08-07 17:00:17 · update #1
Some of you posters are real friggin morons!!!!
2006-08-07 17:31:34 · update #2
I understand your situation, my husband looks at porn behind my back and it upsets me. I just had a baby 9 months ago and he did it while I was pregnant and he still sneaks and does it occasionally. I confronted him and he acts like its no big deal, but to me it is very disrespectful. We have a very good sex life, so I don't understand why he feels the need to continue with it. I feel that porn distorts a guys view of sex and the way intimacy should be with his wife. With me I have started having resentment toward my husband and it has really affected our relationship. (He also checks out other woman when he's out with me, etc.....) When you are pregnant with the way it makes your body change, we are sometimes insecure anyway and things like this only make the situation worse.
You should try and talk to him, I'm not sure that it will do any good, tell him how you are feeling and that he is only making things worse by doing this..........Good luck!
2006-08-07 17:16:25 · answer #1 · answered by tiny rain drops 2 · 14⤊ 10⤋
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2016-07-18 18:37:53 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My best friend divorced her 1st husband coz she found out he'd be looking at porn behind her back - I thought it was a little extreme but Ive never been married so cant really judge.
I have been pregnant tho so I know what that's like.
If you have made it clear to him already how you feel & he continues to do it, I really dont think he is taking your feelings seriously. You are pregnant, you are the fragile one and while his child is growing in your body, your needs should come before his!
Men always use the excuses about manly instinct, natural fact of life and blah blah blah.
And they reckon they are the stronger sex! Well, if they cant handle holding off you know what for a little while, then I think they are all weak!
Tell him if he doesnt stop , you'll revenge yourself upon the entire opposite sex by playing every dude's a*** you come across once the baby is born and you're back in shape!
2006-08-07 17:09:12 · answer #3 · answered by miss2sexc 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To answer your question - YES it bothers me. I don't think any good comes from watching porn. I think it encourages men to cheat on their wives.
My question for you is why can't you have sex when you're pregnant? I did both times - even the day I went into labor. Sure we had to experiment with a few new positions so I was more comfortable, but the sex was still great.
2006-08-07 16:59:31 · answer #4 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
would you rather him sleep with another woman, whether you realize it or not men dont do it to upset you or make you feel unwanted do you know how much sperm men make in one day if you dont you should look it up and hurts their balls when the sperm gets built up aka blue balls and it causes pain. all these woman on here are so insecure about their husbands looking at porn. do you really think your husband is going to run into jenna jameson and she is going to be like oh yeah i want your husband jeez get over it he must love you otherwise he wouldnt be there
2006-08-07 17:29:42 · answer #5 · answered by sweetie1995 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
he shouldn't have to do it behind your back. watch it with him and help him out! Just because you can't have intercourse doesn't mean you can't have sex. You should be grateful he is "getting off" to porn and not turning to other women as some men would.
2006-08-07 17:09:42 · answer #6 · answered by beth l 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband use to do it behind my back. I told him that it upset me. And I wish he wouldn't do it at all. But if he had to do it then at least do it with me or let me know that he's doing it. So it's gotten better since I told him.
2006-08-07 16:59:06 · answer #7 · answered by armywifeoftony 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My husband doesn't have to watchit behind my back. I don't care. And why can't you have sex? How far along are you?
2006-08-07 16:59:09 · answer #8 · answered by Nosy news 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HONESTLY FROM A MAN,
All of your husband materbate behind your back. 60% of your husbands cheat and probably 30% of` your husbands cheat with men. I SWEAR................
BUT THEY REALLY DO LOVE YOU I AM SURE< THATS JUST THE FACTS THOUGH
2006-08-07 17:03:41 · answer #9 · answered by Jarrett 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If I catch him I will kill him. Im sure he does here and there but, he better be smart enough to hide it very well. boys will be boys ya know. as long as he isnt disrespectful or anything some things like that can slide
2006-08-07 16:58:31 · answer #10 · answered by fawn 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, because ejaculating is like peeing. It has to be done. Hes not getting any from you cause you are pregnant, off course hes gonna relieve himself.
2006-08-07 16:57:31 · answer #11 · answered by juju 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋