I am 17, straight, and have a girlfriend of 5 months who turns me on ALOT.. but ever since a few years ago, I've been having some bisexual thoughts. And I also reeeaally enjoy those thoughts, almost as much as hetero ones. How can I act on this, to see what it is like, without any obligation, commitment, embarassment, or chance that anyone I know will find out?
2006-08-07 16:48:42 · 9 answers · asked by Jeremy 2 in Health ➔ Men's Health
Go to a different state or town and try finding members of the local gay community. Be aware of pedophiles, though.
No shame in testing the waters. At least if you try it you will know your preferences and feel comfortable within yourself.
2006-08-07 17:02:19 · answer #1 · answered by Sandra 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Bi- curious,
I would find out if you are really ready to take the big step and are willing to go through and see if experiencing something with the same sex is something you really want to do. I would first start talking to someone who is bi-sexual and let that person know that you to want to experience what it is like to be with someone of the same sex. Althouhg of course you would want that person to know that you want no strings attached that you are only experimenting the certain feelings that go beyond what you are used to feeling. I hope that I was someone of a help and that all worked out in the end. I only know a little about this and I had a friend that knew for years that he liked the same sex as well as the opposit and did not come out and say anything to anyone until grade 11 right after exams. I hope all goes well and I two would not mind experimenting with the same sex.
-Be Strong
2006-08-07 17:37:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
m8
ive known I was bi since I was 16 - im now 20. Its nothing o be ashamed off - the way I think of it is that we are all just animals and your just a really horny bloke. DOnt stress. Ive only ever been sucked off by a guy and it was really good. I thought that I would feel ashamed of it afterwoods but you really dont. If you have any more problems or anything sent us an email dadm_86@yahoo.com
2006-08-07 17:56:54 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should act on your curiousity. What does your girlfriend thinks of bisexuality? If she is cool with it, maybe she could help fulfill your fantasies. Keep an open mind. If you need to look by yourself. Be careful. If something feels not right, don't do it. Good luck. I hope everything works out.
2006-08-10 13:29:24 · answer #4 · answered by thebillshow2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm, place an online personals ad on yahoo
2006-08-07 17:18:29 · answer #5 · answered by Jarrett 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hang around outside a gay bar and see if you get picked up.
2006-08-07 16:56:16 · answer #6 · answered by quikzip7 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
wait untill your in collage thats when that crazy kinnky stuff goes down
2006-08-07 23:43:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lie about your age and register with adult friendfinder.com.Be careful who you choose and enjoy yourself.If you don't like it when you're done;chock it up to experience.
2006-08-07 19:23:40 · answer #8 · answered by Wayne P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to http://g0ys.org. they can help you.
2006-08-07 16:56:24 · answer #9 · answered by ♂ Randy W. ♂ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋