How do I tell him that I a going to have his baby?

Question

i am 18 and I am 7 week

Answer 1

First of all, do you really want him to be involved in this baby's life? Maybe you wouldn't want to tell him at all. Secondly, is he a Jerry Springer fan? If yes, run and hide girl, because he'd probably want DNA testing done to prove it's his. There are alternatives. Get councelling at a free clinic.

Answer 2

Just Straight Out Tell Him So He Can Prepair And Just Be Prepaired Your Self Because He Will Be Over Run With All Kinds Of Emotions. Tell Him In Public As Well But Quitely So That Only He Can Hear It.!

Answer 3

ok i can't say that i no what you are going thur cuz i don't . but maybe this will help you in someway. there is alot of thing that you could do to get ready on telling him . one way is by having a great night tonight and cooking for him tell him how much he means to you and all the things that you would love to have with him in life. and just tell him ok it is like this i am going to have your baby and if for some reason he dose like some guys will then tell him that it takes 2 that you did not do it by yourself. i hope this will help you in some kind of way . and good luck with telling him and having your baby. i wish you the best

Answer 4

Open your mouth and form the words with your lips. Expel air from your lungs and your vocal cords will vibrate making an intelligible sound that says, "I'm having your baby."

Don't expect him to take responsibility for your child if you were stupid enough to have sexual relations outside of marriage.

Dumb!Dumb!Dumb!

My niece did the same thing and now I am raising her children. Don't get me wrong, I love them very much but I already raised a family and she is still screwing around. She does nothing to care for her children except show up once in a while to get a hug.

NOT FAIR! NOT FAIR! NOT FAIR! (To the kids that is)

Answer 5

It wont be easy and you have a long road ahead of you, so tell him soon so he can have more time to think about it and more time to prepare, you DO NOT want to go through this alone. And don't ever think you have to stay with him because of your baby. He has a commitment to this child's life but not to yours. Just go tell him as soon as you can. But try not to do it in public or get all emotional. You guys have a lot to think about now. Good luck.

Answer 6

It may be hard but tell him asap, the sooner the better. He is equally responsible for this child and must be given the chance to know about it. I know It is very stressful on you already,so concentrate on the baby no matter how he takes it. Get support for yourself from the proper channels such as your parents,an older sister, Birthright. Take care, ~A~

Answer 7

It depends on whether this is a planned pregnancy or not... if this is a planned one, a romantic atmosphere is needed like a resto or a hotel. Now. if this is an accident, a more serious place is needed, be sure that he's all ears, and nobody else is around, tell to him directly, boldly, frankly. be straightforward about this for this is a serious matter.

Answer 8

Next time you guys are out for a walk, start singing

"Selena and (insert his name) sitting in a tree
k i s s i n g... first comes love, than comes marriage, then
comes baby in the baby carriage.

Sucking his thumb, wetting his pants, doing the hula hula dance.

And then just see what his reaction is.

Geeze.... if nothing else, have fun with it.

Answer 9

Face to face. Tell him the truth in an honest and clear way. Don't get all emotional. It may take a while for it to set in with him. Men take longer to process it because the changes aren't happening to their body.
Congrats and good luck.

Answer 10

How old is he? Not that it matters because most guys freak about pregnancy at any age. He's not going to be happy. Maybe you could show him the pregnancy test. Whatever you decide to do, expect the worst and hope for the best.