Say your husband has never cheated but you found out he has a blog on my space. He never told me. I found out because I walked in to the room while he was posting something. I told him I felt it was wrong to hide it and he said his work partner did it and he was just having fun. Do u think it could lead to something more or am I just nuts?
2006-08-07 16:15:51 · 11 answers · asked by jagbeeton 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hiding is wrong. Being on the net in honest sites where anyone who walks in the room and you don't have to black out the screen doesn't do any harm. If he wants to have fun there is all kinds of games he can play, alone or with others on the net. Going into chat rooms secretly is like lighting a fuse on dynamite, it's going to go off sooner or later with a lot of damage. With all the bad hype on my space right now, especially men and children and the law, I'd think more about what he's doing then worry about being nuts.
2006-08-07 16:29:55 · answer #1 · answered by sassywv 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
the internet is NOT the root of all evil. He could just as easily be cheating doing a hobby than he could on the net. I dont really understand how posting a blog could be considered "cheating" Youre not actually talking to people. Maybe he's hiding it because he's typing about you. If he cheats..hes going to cheat no matter what...dont blame the net for it...you need to look and see whats going on in the marriage first.
2006-08-07 16:29:38 · answer #2 · answered by bytch_hog 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a understanding with my husband that its ok to look but no chatting with a chick or I consider it infedelity.Cause it is ! If he is speaking to a chick in public about his personal stuff and learning hers is not what Id say a good thing! My nephew has the same trouble with his girfriend and it has caused a huge rift ! Teens are fine but not married people.Im sorry u have to go thru this seems the net is causeing alot of trouble .Good luck!
2006-08-07 16:31:12 · answer #3 · answered by jessy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not nuts, He definately can get into trouble and end up doing something stupid. He is married and should not be messing around on the internet like that unless he is planning on doing something.
2006-08-07 16:20:16 · answer #4 · answered by winegoddess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what he is doing on Myspace. He could be looking for local girls to have sex with, or he could be looking for business contacts in the area. Or he could just be having fun and keeping in contact with friends.
2006-08-07 16:23:38 · answer #5 · answered by trovanhawk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if he wants to write a journal about his days....let him, he may have some very interesting things to say about his days, but he should have told you.
If there isn't anything in it to give you pause, then let it be and don't make a big deal about it.
2006-08-07 16:26:09 · answer #6 · answered by rdhedhottie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chill out. It could really be nothing. If you have a honest relationship just let it go or maybe get one of your own.
2006-08-07 16:21:06 · answer #7 · answered by Alaska 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would concern me also (I am married also). I would be on alert for any more signs of anything before jumping to conclusions. Ask him if you can see his space and see how he reacts. That's what I would do.
2006-08-07 16:23:49 · answer #8 · answered by K8 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OH good grief people,, if he was open with her and lets her look at the page and link to it,, he is just another one of us online,, does she let him read her yahoo questions and answers???
Why cry foul over this?
2006-08-07 16:35:25 · answer #9 · answered by yeller 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he should'nt be having that type of fun. he needs a damn hobby. basketball, football, ice hockey something!!!!! and he should care more about your feelings and what you two have been through. that is a complete NO NO!!!!!!!
2006-08-07 16:22:08 · answer #10 · answered by qtpie19_02 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋