well....this is the thing....i met a guy who i really like, but he just ended a 2 year relantionship like 2 mounths ago.....now he says he doesnt love her , and that he would never come back with her, because she cheated on him...and everything died
now we've been dating....and do u think i should give him a chance??....should i keep on dating him or start a relantionship ??.....
2006-08-07 16:08:03 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Come On...Give him a chance...The thing is, he was cheated on, so that's something that is hard to get over. So most likely, he's not on a rebound...and has moved on. he really wants to get to know you... Give him a chance.
2006-08-07 16:14:29 · answer #1 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not a one-size fits all question, or answer for that matter. I don't remember where I read it, but years ago I read it takes approximately 4 months for each year spent with a person to truly get over them. So..... 2 years, 8 months.
I would not jump into anything serious with him. If you like him and enjoy spending time with him, great. But nothing hot or heavy. He is hurt and needs time to heal and figure things out in his heart and his head.
2006-08-07 16:13:25 · answer #2 · answered by 'Barn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say u keep on dating him for awhile because the fact about him ending the 2 years relationship might lead him back to talking to her. guys always say how they're not going to get back with their ex but trust me.. most of them do and ur gonna be the victim thats getting hurt at the end! girl.. ive been thorough this personally so i know how it feels to be in the middle if anything goes wrong! trust me on this one.. keep dating him for at least a good few months, keep ur options open because he might be just using u as a rebound! sorrie for being so blunt! best wishes and good luck!
2006-08-07 16:13:47 · answer #3 · answered by Jade 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should keep on dating him to find out more facts about him. you need to know a lot about him. if you think you know him enough then go into a RELATIONSHIP. not relantionship.
2006-08-07 16:14:08 · answer #4 · answered by Saph 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 seems to be a popular number today. I just ended my relationship that lasted that for 2 years. It's hard since I love him and he loves me, but we both needed time to grow up. Give him the chance though. He might be worth it if his name isn't Jon.
2006-08-07 16:13:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most definately! Give him a chance, just try not to break his heart like she did. Take your time and make sure you are ready for a relationship, if you are........take it slow....he's still in the healing process, but if he knows he doesn't want her back, then you have a good chance at making it work!
2006-08-07 16:12:47 · answer #6 · answered by rdhedhottie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be careful my man left me after nine years for another woman and was back in two months. they are on rebound mode and will often tell the other woman what they want to hear just to get some nookie and then they go back to the one they truly love. you don't know what role he played in the relationship cause your only getting his point of view. be careful remember there are always two sides.
2006-08-07 16:23:27 · answer #7 · answered by been there 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he really likes you he will make sure he does by waiting a while. be patient, tell him to get back to you in a year after he broke up with her. one year is long but it should be the least time before he should consider dating again. in the mean time you could be friends, then good friends then after a year if your best friends then dating him will be bliss.
2006-08-07 16:14:48 · answer #8 · answered by chris r 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you're ready to ask you must be seriously considering it, so i'd say go for it.
Worrying about the past isn't going to help things, just do what feels right (dating or more). And good luck.
2006-08-07 16:13:34 · answer #9 · answered by Smarticus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's still on rebound. Two years is a long tim for a relationship. If you don't want him comparing everything about her to you, wait untl he's had time to mourn and heal...and then let him discover the wonderful you...you are worth his wait!
2006-08-07 16:11:51 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋