ok, we were supposed to move but we didnt even get a for sale sign on our house, and my mom tried to enroll me to my friends school, cuz my school is full of stupid stupid ppl who just lie and make fun of me, but there werent anymore openings! so now im going back to this dumb middle school with like i said, kids, who lie about me, make rumours about me, judge me because of my looks, and if i ever get any friends, all the stupid people will say "oh, dont be her friend, shes weird and..." then HERE COMES THE LIES! i've lost about 6 friends that way! i dont know what to do! i dont want to go to this dumb school AGAIN! i know i have to but what can i do to make all the bad stuff stop?!? pleaseee help!!!
*I PUT THIS UNDER "FRIENDS" FOR A REASON!!!*
Janel
2006-08-07 15:46:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
BUT READ THIS: WE ALWAYS GET NEW PEOPLE AT OUR SCHOOL!! AND ALL THOSE PEOPLE HEAR THE LIES AND RUMOURS AND THINK THEIR THE TRUTH!! so that means no friends for janel ='[
2006-08-07 15:54:24 · update #1
I had the same problem when I was in middle school.You just have to ignore them and show them that the rumors and the stuff they say isnt bothering you because all they want from you is a reaction.Just tell them that they are lame to actually take the time to say all of these things about you and then walk away.You know the things that are and arnt true about yourself so dont let their lies and rumors get to you.Be strong and believe in yourself that you can be better than them and not stoop to their level.Good luck and hang in there! e-mail me if you have any other questions.kasie_behave12@yahoo.com.
Sincerely,
WhiteTiger14
2006-08-07 16:00:44 · answer #1 · answered by whitetiger14 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-23 15:13:47 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Completely ignore the people who are spreading rumors about you.
It annoys them to no end, but it also makes them stop. If your new friends leave when the rumors start, why would you want them to continue being your friends? A real friend stays with you no matter what kind of nasty comments are spread behind your back.
2006-08-07 15:52:25 · answer #3 · answered by kxaltli 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Middle school is like that. All the girls tend to be really b****y. Try to find the other girls who have been ostracized. They'll be more understanding. Also, middle school is only three years. They may seem very long, but it will end and you will be better than to wretched people when all is said and done.
2006-08-07 16:04:09 · answer #4 · answered by spunk113 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should try to enroll in sports or other activities and then on the weekends hang out with ur friends from the other school.
2006-08-07 15:50:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know the feeling of being the one that is made fun of , left out, made to feel dumb and like a fool.......to have so called friends use you and then drop you. See I too when I was in grade and high school was made fun of and treated differently.....the kids were mean and cruel and acted like a bunch of idiots towards me, but you know what?.......It was there loss that they never got to know me cause they missed out on getting to know a really great person.
You see they are the ones with the problem not you........fact is if you ask me that they dont like something about themselves, so instead of dealing whatever it is they dont like they take it out on someone else by making fun or hurting them. They are so insecure about themselves that they cant even deal with it except to make someone else's life miserable.......like the saying goes " misery loves company"
Here is my advice to you and I know its not easy believe me, but this is what you do.......You hold your head high and ignore them and be proud of who you are because who you are is God's child and His creation and He loves you and Has wonderful plans for you. As long as you know the truth about you and are comfortable and happy with who you are thats all that matters.....its not about what they think....its about what God and you know and think.
It wasn't easy on me but I did do my best to not let those people steal my joy and happiness and ya know one way to ge to them is by letting them see you arent bothered by their nonsense and lies.......you walk on by and ignore them or if they do say something to you......kill them with kindness.....give them a smile and go about your business.......it will drive them crazy......atleast it worked for me and got them to shut up for awhile.
Good luck with your situation and I do hope things improve you. I'll say a prayer for you.
2006-08-07 16:13:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hold your head high, sweetie. Never let them see that they're hurting you.
2006-08-07 15:52:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋