I'm a christian and I'm 18 and I'm thinking bout having sex with my boyfirned. I have got an implanon which will stop me getting pregnant. What should I do?
2006-08-07 15:41:06 · 14 answers · asked by Trac 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
My boyfriend isn't a christian but he'll wait if he has to.
2006-08-07 15:56:08 · update #1
I know I'm only 18 but I want to do the right thing by both my boyfriend and God. I would like to have sex but I'm still so unsure as to what i should do.
2006-08-08 15:54:05 · update #2
sweetheart let me tell u, if u r a christian, a true christian then yes you have to wait til ur married to have sex because the Bible says flee fornication which is sexual immorality. and if u just cant wait to have sex the Bible also says it is better to marry than to burn. but just be careful and just wait and let God do what he has to do. Its worth waiting for. im a christian and yes its hard waiting on that God-sent young man but see im learning to endure and wait on God. because in due time i shall be rewarded, and if u wait u shall be rewarded!!! Read the following passages and u will see what i mean. ok
2006-08-07 17:23:52 · answer #1 · answered by stacey 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
in the bible it says that sex is something special and sacred to be shared only by a man and a woman.
but it really is up to you, are you morally ready to accept the responsibility of having sex?
you have to remember that if you do find a good christian man to marry you have to tell him that you didn't wait for him, which is hard especially if he waited for you.
even with impantations, you can still get pregnant, the only 100% way of not getting pregnant is abstinance.
if you think you are ready, make sure that you are prepared for the emotional consequences that could come too - you don't want to regret it later, you can't take it back.
2006-08-07 22:47:38 · answer #2 · answered by JeremeyAnne 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God designed sex to be for marriage only. Go read your bible or talk to an older, more mature Christian whom you are close to. As a Christian you will be tempted, but its what you do with that temptation that makes the difference.
I unwillingly had sex before I was married with someone who wasn't my husband and I so wish it didn't happen. Wait until you are married as the extra baggage is so not worth it.
2006-08-07 23:43:03 · answer #3 · answered by wenjowade 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the Bible says to flee from sexual immorality. It very blatantly declares that fornication (sex before marriage) is sin. If you are a Christian, I seriously urge you to think about this decision before you do it. Besides the fact that it is wrong, it also can have an effect on your relationship with your boyfriend. Waiting until marriage gives you that reward on your wedding night. If you don't wait, there's nothing special about it. Plus, if you don't end up marrying this guy, why would you want to give your body up to him? That would affect your relationship with your future husband.
Please please wait! It's worth it!
2006-08-07 22:48:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, we Christians wait till marriage to have sex.
2006-08-08 14:50:13 · answer #5 · answered by Baby_Phat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have Christian beliefs also and I was raised to not have sex until I was married. Well I didn't wait...and let me tell you I seriously regret it now. Take yer time. Yer young and have yer whole life to do it.
2006-08-07 22:48:36 · answer #6 · answered by jennkowell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, not only Christians, but everyone should wait till they're married to have sex
2006-08-08 00:48:33 · answer #7 · answered by xBuriedxAxLiex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, and not just Christians. Everyone should. It would cut down on STDs and would make teen pregnancy nonexistent.
P.s. learn to spell
2006-08-08 21:01:25 · answer #8 · answered by Coby J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone should wait until marriage to have sex, not just christians.
2006-08-07 22:51:51 · answer #9 · answered by Pop a Merf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on you iam a Christian and had sex before marriage
2006-08-07 22:50:29 · answer #10 · answered by cynthia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋