is being a lesbian OK?

Answer 1

of course it's ok .. you are what you are ... it's not something you do, it's something you are and that cannot be ok or not ok .. it just is

if you believe in god, then you have to believe that god made you just the way you are ... since everything that god made is just the way (s)he wants it to be, then you are perfect, just the way god made you

if you don't believe in god, then there's no reason whatsoever to even doubt for a moment that you're ok

you know, in our sick society, thanks to the judeo-christian influence, the diversity of human sexuality is denied and, indeed sexuality is stifled ... as you get older, if you mind has not been turned off by religious influence, you realize this

Answer 2

Totally ok - and fun. I have gone out with a few women though I mostly date men but I have had tons of fun with the women in my life - they know our bodies best and understand our moods and it is like having your best friend as your gf - kinda like it is with my by now but you know what I mean - women have different relationships.
It can get very emotional and a lot of gay women fight a lot because of this and it is not an overgeneralization - it does tend to be true. But so so all couples sometimes.
I would never take back the times that I had with the girls I have been with - they were some of the best times in my life (and the best sex by the way)
There is something really beautiful about two women and loving a woman - it is so sensual and intense - different than with men in some way though I can't find the words to describe it. The attraction is intense - the partnership can be so strong and I absolutely say there is nothing wrong with it - if that is what is in you and that is what you feel and who you look at and are drawn to then of course there isn't - some people say there is (parents, society) but that doesn't matter - it is your life ( I think =) and your heart and only you have to wake up and go to sleep every night with that happiness and love in your heart - it is a beautiful thing - it really is.

~***PS - IGNORE the negative comments. Anyone that is threatened by anyone else's sexuality is not happy with their own lives &/or sexuality. I am religious - in my own way but raised Catholic and God is supposed to love all people and if he doesn't then I don't want him as my God - I have a belief in a higher power - something greater than me and this controversy about religion and gays and them going to hell and all of that is just an outrage to me - it really is so absurd. The Catholic church is based on a lot of hypocrisy - priests abuse young boys and women that are raped are condemned if they have abortions - where is God in that?? Why do these fanatics preach about a religion in which their own preachers of it violate these so called "God's laws" and better yet - simple human laws- moral laws - It is unreal.
If you are one of those people who are lucky enough to come across love and hold it in your hands and in your heart and be able to share that love and passion with someone else, you should take it cause that is a true blessing. You believe in what you believe - there is nothing wrong with gay relationships - nothing. I have seen many more dangerous and harmed hetero relationships than I have seen gay and lesbian ones.
Who are we to judge each other? Really - where do some of you people get off thinking that you are so powerful & important and just even have the right to judge anyone else. Look at your own lives - and perfect those - mind your business. As human beings I think our only interest should be in seeing others happy - whatever that may mean and so much less energy and emphasis should be placed on this harsh and unfair judgement and hatred. How can you claim to be religious and violate all of those rules - love thy neighbor - forgiveness, respect - these are not just religious ideals but basic human principles that all of us should have learned. They can't sit in judgement of you. You do what makes you happy cause it is your life - these poor sad people are so consumed with us - with anything other than the black and white pictures in their heads - all brainwashed somehow - and no one realizes - everyone forgets all the shades of grey. You be happy - Live your life to the fullest and never EVER let ANYONE tell you differently. Never ever let anyone tell you what rights you have because life is ours - it is our individual journey to lead and our choices to make so start your journey and have fun - that is it. Pay no mind to the ignorant.

It is not a sin - what is a true sin is to judge someone else - where do these people get off thinking they can do that - thinking they have the right to try to tear us down - I pity them - the weak and weak minded - the blind - the empty souls - they will never know true happiness - they will just never see.

Answer 3

No, Leviticus 20:13 and when a man lies down with a male the same as one lies down with a women, both of them have done a detestable thing. They should be put to death without fail. Their own blood is upon them.

Answer 4

God made Adam and Eve, not Adam and Steve, or Amanda and Eve, God does love you in your sin He just does not love the sin itself. Leviticus does specifically mention men not laying with men as with a woman and it also mentions not laying with animals. I couldn't find a specific verse in this short amount of time that specifically states not to but back then it wasn't as prevalent as it is today either.

Answer 5

Sure. There's nothing wrong with it. Just don't bore us with tiresome stories of sexual conquest, OK? They are just as tiresome from gay men and heterosexuals.

And it's not like I can get verification.

("1985. Concord Pavilion. I'm backstage at a Heart concert and I meet Ann and Nancy Wilson.....")

Answer 6

Depends. Some major religions teach that it is immoral, but if you accept Christ as your savior, you will be forgiven. The secular society has no problem with it. The important thing here is whether or not you're okay with it. In my experience, God's very understanding.

Answer 7

No! It isn't! Because I'm uber Christian, and even though my Bible says judge not lest ye be judged, I feel pious and equipped enough to judge being a lesbian as not okay!!!

(Obviously I'm kidding, of course it's okay.)

Answer 8

God made us the way he chose to. Some men he made straight and they get to feel the warmth of a woman and know the joys she brings Some he made homosexual and they get to feel the strength and texture of a man and know his tender side. Some women he made straight to feel that same feeling from a man and some women he made lesbian to feel that warmth and softness that is a woman. And some of us he chose to be lucky and he made us bisexual so we get to know both.

Answer 9

according to god's word - the bible and many other religious scriptures - no.

and forget the "gay christians" and "lesbian christians".

You can't be for Jesus and lead a life against his rules. And please no saying "Jesus is not against homosexuality" because the bible is proof.

PS: I am not judging anybody by saying that homosexuality is not ok.

Answer 10

BLEEP no..... being a lesbian or gay of that matter isn't OK

its a freaking sin, and gays will be in hell ...when they die

yeah gays might be people but there freaking nasty people...
who cares if there people to....it doesn't change the fact that they are sinning..... and there punishment will be ---HELL---

if i go kill someone..... yeah im a person too but it doesnt change the fact that im a murderer..........