i had sex with my friends mom?

Question

I'm 17, and I had sex with my friends mom, who is 38 and married. Should I tell my friend that I had sex with his mom?

and it was her idea for me to have sex with her.

it's kinda strange.. i feel like a real man, but yet, have that guilt knowing that i had sex with my friends mom and stuff... knowing that if i do tell, it might tear their family apart or whatever

anyway, since you people want more details... it was three days ago (Friday) and she calls me up, asking if i could help her around the house and such, and then she straight up ask me if i wanted to have sex. so first thing i say is sure... and for that one person, no, it wasnt my first time... i did have sex before with my ex.

last thing to add, i found this out yesterday, she's kinda the neighborhood sex doll

Answer 1

tell him you're going to be his stepdad one day.

Answer 2

Now that we know what kind of mother your friend has you can deduce why he is screwed up in so many ways. A friend would not have done what you did. You are without morals as is the mother. Pray she doesn't get pregnant. Also, why are you blabbing this all over the net. Some bureaucrat in law enforcement and/or CPS can I.D. you and the mother can be prosecuted. You may have destroyed a family with your selfish act. Yeah, I blame you. Seventeen year old studs have the goods but they don't have the brains or sense of responsibility. The "older woman" clearly was thinking of herself but then older women and older men sometimes get weak in the face of stud muffins and sex pots. And you know it. What a bum you are.
Then again, this is all probably wishful thinking by a 17-year old loser who get vicarious pleasure reading the responses. Join the Army and grow up either way.

Answer 3

Without judging the particulars of your encounter with your friends mom, the answer is yes. Friendship is based largely on honesty. In this case, your honesty will risk and maybe end the friendship. The alternative though is just as bad. Too always hide something from someone is a terrible yoke to carry through a relationship. It will force you to tell white lies and be silent about certain subjects. A good friendship requires honesty.

Answer 4

For all the people who say it is illegal...WRONG!!! Seventeen is a considered and age where you can have sex legally as long as you consent to it. In other words, if you wanted to bang an 80 year old, you can. If you enjoyed it and liked it...what's the fuss about. Keep doing it...should you tell your friend? Eventually, when the time is right. If not and you keep doing it...he'll probably figure it out on his own and then kick your @ss, but until then, have your cake and it it too!

Answer 5

Absolutely, under NO circumstances, should you tell your friend. How long ago did it happen? If it was recent, it'll sink in that you had an experience to remember, but it also has the potential to hurt a lot of people. Try to just hang on to the positive part of the experience, but do not turn it into a negative one. You'll fell much worse than you do now.

Answer 6

Unfortunately in most United States states that isnt illegal because the legal age of sexual consent is 16 years old.
It is how ever un moral.
I am 37 years old I would never have sex with someone your age . The youngest I would go is 30 and the oldest I would go would be 45.

I wouldn't tell your fiend. Why make problems in your friendship and who is to say he wouldn't tell her husband ( his dad or step dad) Then you will have a bunch of other problems. so It isnt worth talking to him about .
Penny Babson
http://www.impressionsbypenny.com

Answer 7

There are crisis hotlines that can help you to deal with the emotional fallout you're experiencing, and it will be completely private and anonymous. If you value your friendship I would say that you owe it to your friend NOT to tell him. As to the woman involved, she chose to seduce you. She's probably looking for any excuse to end her marriage, or at least to shake it up enough that she no longer feels like she's stuck in a rut. It will be very tough to stay friends with your pal and avoid his parents. Good luck.

Answer 8

>Go to a good dentist and tell him your story. I will bet that he would tell you that carrying your fantasy into the real world is not conducive to keeping your teeth intact.

However, you have a better command of language and sentence construction than most that submit questions here...you can write.

This tale is probably sell-able on many Internet sites. Keep your mouth shut and make a couple of bucks on that imagination!<

Answer 9

Not reccomended or approved by the "Society for the Prevention of Having Sex with your Friends Mother". You should join the local chapter and get help.

Answer 10

Was it Stifflers mom?...I think your lucky but I think she is mentally deranged...what she is doing is purley selfish...to make her feel good or to get back at someone...whatever her reasons she is off of the jerry springer show...you on the other hand did it...now end it and keep it to yourself...and take your experience and show a nice girl that you love what you learned...if you tell your friend your friend won't be your friend anymore..

Answer 11

Probably not, and it will only make matters worse. Imagine if your friend finds out that his mom cheated on his dad with you! And if you are still having sex with your friend's mom, you should end it. She's obviously having some marital (or mental) problems and if you really value your friendship, you would stay out of all that drama