Why do people (especially guys and a fair amount of females!) always assume that because I'm a lesbian that must mean I haven't had any 'good d*ck'? And when I say I've tried it, don't like it, they still persist with "But was it good?"
WTF?! If it was good I wouldn't be a lesbian, now would I?!
What is wrong with people?
.....Thanks for listening, I had to let that out.
2006-08-07 14:57:10 · 23 answers · asked by Agent Double EL 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
PS-I know all guys and all females are not like that, I apologize for generalization.
2006-08-07 14:57:30 · update #1
They don't get it because they are simple, and need to go read a book.
Sweetie, the next time someone makes that comment to you , just simply tell them this:
" I'm not a lesbian because I haven't had any good d ick, I'm a lesbian because I have had some good p ussy."
I bet they will leave you alone then.
However, if this doesn't work there are a couple more things you can say.
To the ladies who think you should date men, tell them:
"You take all the men, I'll take all the women."
"Be glad I'm a lesbian, because if I wasn't, your boyfriend would be mines."
To the men who think you should date men, tell them:
"I'll start dating men when you do."
"Sure, I'll get a boyfriend. Let's go look for one together."
"I like p ussy for the same reason you do."
If all else fails, you can always tell them to kiss your a ss.
2006-08-07 16:44:06 · answer #1 · answered by indrep33 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Its the old adage you just haven't found the right man yet . I get it all the time and it is always from women , If you had the right woman you would never want another man , or if you would try it with me I would turn you around . These people have little respect for you or your lot in life . They can't understand and never will understand what your life is like or what you have to endure to be a lesbian . They all think we choose to be gay and we can choose to be straight . They don't have a clue that if we could choose we would certainly wouldn't choose the hard road . You continue to fight the good fight with the rest of us and we will someday stand united and we will win the war on bigotry .
2006-08-07 17:58:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People hear what they want to hear.
It's like a stupid person that will hear about a 2 for 1 special on product a if you also purchase product b.
What does this mean? You have to buy product b to get the 2 for 1 for product a! Some people will just want the 2 for 1 for a and get all the way up to sale and then loudly bewail their fate about having to buy product b. They probably heard it, read it on the notice, and saw it on a sign in the store.
I can not understand why someone does not know that lesbian means a woman who likes a woman and that they don't want men. It is insulting. I'd be angry too.
2006-08-07 15:09:42 · answer #3 · answered by Think.for.your.self 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I get your point. Like people say to me as a gay male that I just haven't met the right girl yet. Sure I did, but I had the good sense to turn her loose before we both made a BIG mistake.
Not matter how good a guy is, he's not going to change the fact that you are lesbian. Nor should he try!
2006-08-07 15:23:46 · answer #4 · answered by michael941260 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, it's ok, we all need to rant some times...
The same thing happens to me sometimes. I'm gay, and in fact haven't had a lot of any kind of sex. I've never been with a woman, and people ask me how I can know I'm gay without having tried sex with a woman.
I just turn it around and ask them, how do you know you are straight without having had sex with a man (or woman, if it is a girl asking).
Then they usually say something about straight sex being normal, which it isn't, it's just probably more common.
Anyway, keep fighting the good fight :)
2006-08-07 16:47:48 · answer #5 · answered by Shaun B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL,that's just because guys think it's all about them,as if. I guess they need to look up the definition of lesbian,lol. Just like they always ask why do some lesbians look "butch",then why bother being lesbian if they look like a man,hello! Because they are NOT men,lol. WE women have what everyone wants,and it's not a projectile either,lol
peace
2006-08-07 15:03:52 · answer #6 · answered by dragonfly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its just what people who dont understand what being gay or lesbian is. They always seem to think all we need is the right one to show us that is what we wont. How silly. I know I am gay and that wont change. I could meet the sexiest woman in the world and the nicest one and the only thing that would ever be is a really great friend. So just ignore there inability to understand us and keep moving on. Just remember "It is better to love someone than to love no one." regardless of there sexual oriantaion. Please keep you chin up and stay strong.
2006-08-07 15:10:29 · answer #7 · answered by Rob 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You had every right to feel that way. Most folks are just plain ignorant, honey. Don't pay those silly folks any attention, girl. They're mad because THEY can't get good dick, pussy, head, salad tossed, or even get a nut mastubating(they'd **** that up!). When it comes to the LGBT community, most folks rather feed off MISinformation, rumors, stereotypes, and hide behind the Bible. Once again, don't pay silly folks any mind. They don't pay your bills, feed you, clothe you, or take care of you. Madea said it best, "It ain't what you're called, it's what you answer to."
'Nuff said.
indrep33, tell it, sista!
2006-08-07 17:03:09 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the only way to get good dick is to know how to coax what you want out of it. So, if it doesn't interest you, you're never going to have any good d*ck.
Yeah, I just said that there basically is no such thing as good d*ck. Mostly just to make you feel better. Personally, I've only met one.
2006-08-07 15:49:15 · answer #9 · answered by ^i^ Angel ^i^ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GAy guys get the same thing..."you just haven't met the right woman." To them, if it is a woman, I say, "Neither have you.!" We laugh. When men tell me this, I tell them, "You haven't met the right guy, or you wouldn't be standing here telling me this bull." and we laugh. I think that laughter is a better solution to this stuff than offense and anger....try it. Good luck. The next time some guy tells you "you just haven't had the right dick," tell him "I guess Neither have you." and let it go at that. Good luck
2006-08-07 15:08:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋