(please see my other question too...)
I'm 16...ok....i recently moved...lost the girl i loved to a guy i liked and she had a baby...(not his)...There are NO.bi chicks/les at my new school and i'm sad cuz there are no girls i can flirt with.... : ( i feel bad cuz i have no guy or girl to talk to tell i care about and to make happy....What sould i do!?!
ps.if u think you can help by just being a good friend please leave your e-mail and i am always open to being a good honest friend and making one...
2006-08-07 14:55:52 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
well i know i am a lil young...but some things have happend to me growing up and i guess i see life in a whole diff. way...i do live in a small town and my new school is a 2 A school rather a 5A school that i'm used to.I've made some major mistakes and we all do...but..As a 16 year old that has to go through some of the stress i do...you would probably understand why i feel so grown up and ready for the world to give me all it can give...I used to be in ROTC.varsity rifle team and varsity choir..my new school has neither...it's too small and for girls..i would be rejected by nearly the whole school if they found out. I have made a few friends and they were shocked but they were cool with it...i don't know i'm just too diff. sometimes and feel too lonely and would like company...Im sure everyone goes through what i do at times its just i feel it all the time..and just want all answers to all my problems and know,no one has all answers...thanks for answering... :)
2006-08-07 18:51:45 · update #1
Hey,I'm a gay Dude,but I feel your problem.Whatever you do,DO NOT PANIC!SMILES!These things have a way of working themselves out.Dont be in such a rush to flirt and be with someone.Explore your personal time and yourself.Use this opportunity to get to know YOU.After all,you must truly love yourself before you can love others.Take care of yourself,and I assure you,it will end all too fast as someone comes into your life somehow.If you ever need to talk and know it is always as a friend,my spin is: smiles4u2006@gmail.com
My name is obvious by my little fruity avatar.He is so sweet huh?Bye for now Chick,and good luck!
2006-08-07 15:26:27 · answer #1 · answered by Rick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break ups are hard but life goes on. You could go to a local GLBTQ youth group in your area to find friends, support, and someone to talk to about it. I'll link where you can find one near you. Chin up. You never know if you will meet another friend or girlfriend right around the next bend.
2006-08-08 00:39:07 · answer #2 · answered by MindStorm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, unless your new school is tiny, there are bi and lesbian girls there, you may just have moved to a community where it is not safe or acceptable to be "out".
Just make some friends, and have some fun, and sooner or later, somebody will show up on your doorstep. It always works out, just not always as fast as we'd like.
2006-08-07 22:25:46 · answer #3 · answered by michael941260 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy your life the best you can. You'll find someone and until you do you will always have people here willing to be your friends who you can talk to about anything you want to.
If you want you can E-mail me at staryeyekindness@yahoo.com
you could even IM me if you want to ok.
2006-08-07 23:54:29 · answer #4 · answered by Staryeyes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well here's what happened to me.
the same exact thing happened, and i moved to an incredibly religious town in colorado. i met some new girls, and after about 6 months, three of them care "out" to me. now i'm dating one of them and have been for 6 months!
you never know who's gay/bi and who's not. some are really good at hiding it.
IM me on yahoo : Dunklervarfasser
or e-mail me at yahoo
2006-08-07 23:44:36 · answer #5 · answered by Getoutalive 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey little ma, you are way to young to even be thinking about that.. i mean at your age i was out having fun, meeting new people... you will meet someone in due time, right now focous on u, worry about all of that other stuff later... but if you need a ear you can email me...
keep ya head up kid
2006-08-07 23:41:25 · answer #6 · answered by T@J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like I said before,don't worry about being with someone,enjoy being young,old is not fun,lol. Try making yourself happy,then people will follow
2006-08-07 22:00:24 · answer #7 · answered by dragonfly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be patient,you'll find a friend when you least expect it.Looks like your going to make some friends on this forum.Good Luck Sweetie.
2006-08-07 22:23:52 · answer #8 · answered by mustang 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would make friends first then think about being with someone later. once you get to know people then you can see how they are . then you can tell your secret to if they are your true friend
that might know someone to set you up.
2006-08-07 22:04:34 · answer #9 · answered by rhondaswimmer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry baby, you will find someone. it is probably like my situation; i live in a small town virtually NO gay people.. you will have to look hard but you will find someone
2006-08-08 00:15:09 · answer #10 · answered by §ЕЖ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋