hey woman, what would u do if u had a man or woman that is sooooooooo lazy that cant keep a job?that wont help with the house work and he always leaves,and leaves and note says be back in 3 or 4 days?my hubby does this alot.could he be cheatting or gay.i have no sex life.....
2006-08-07 14:28:21 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Why do you choose to accept and allow this behavior?
Honestly, ditch him, go get yourself some therapy so you don't find the same sort of man again.
A relationship should be built on love and respect. Sounds like you two don't have either.
2006-08-07 14:36:03 · answer #1 · answered by leahlovesspam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him what you think. Tell him he has a responsibility to his family and if he does not step up, you're gone. Don't allow this man to walk on you and use you this way. You deserve better.
Let him know the next time he leaves you a note, he'll find a note from you when he gets home.
2006-08-07 14:43:18 · answer #2 · answered by chris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a divorce attorney, and the answer is easy.
It's over. Get over it as soon as possible; otherwise, you are just wasting your life. Sounds like you married a loser. Cut your losses. Move on. I have seen this hundreds of times. The result is almost always the same.
I'll be glad to hear from you if you'd like to chat.
2006-08-08 12:29:39 · answer #3 · answered by sochiswim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he isn't giving it to you he is probably giving it to someone else. He's cheating my guess.
Next time he leaves follow him or have a friend follow him with a camera.
When he returns have all his stuff in bags on the porch with a copy of the photos on top.
2006-08-07 14:36:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely.......sounds like he has a side life as well as one with you.....I wouldn't stand to be treated like that and I'd demand the respect I deserve or he can pack his bags and get out for good.....forget the 3 or 4 days.......
2006-08-07 14:58:37 · answer #5 · answered by bluez 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
could be id tell him face to face either get a job and quit running around or get out if u pay the bills u got the right to do that good luck
2006-08-07 14:32:59 · answer #6 · answered by spoyledmama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get the locks changed, hire lawyer, and get a life. A sex life.
2006-08-07 14:47:44 · answer #7 · answered by babeek 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then why stay. think better of yourself and dont let yourself be treated like that.
tell him if he wants to be with you then he should be there with you and that your home isnt just a hotel for a part time stay.
2006-08-07 14:33:27 · answer #8 · answered by gamplayr2005@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋