Is she? you tell me...
she left me a note today that said:
- You did not apologize for the awful fight from last week
- I was not asked in the last two days if there was anything that hurt me
- You didn't tell me "happy birthday" first thing in the morning (though I had a large and thoughtful party for her yesterday)
- Your child asked you a question and you did not ask me what I thought
- I cleaned the garage... I never heard a thank you (she doesn't work outside of the house and there wasn't really much left to be cleaned... after I spent several weekend on it)
- I asked for your "to do" list to be done by a certain date and it wasn't... then you never said sorry (after I was told it would be done)
2006-08-07 14:25:27 · 6 answers · asked by Georgia guy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Demanding? No.
Immature? Yes.
She should talk to you instead of writing it all in a note.
I highly doubt these are the real reasons she is mad. Read between the lines. She wants you to pay some attention to her!!
2006-08-07 14:39:18 · answer #1 · answered by Windseeker_1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your wife is beyone demanding... She is just evil. Sounds like she treats you like dirt and is incredibly bitchy to you, and I think it's awful that this is your life. Of course, we're only hearing your side of the story, but I believe most women are just mean for no reason. She may resent you for some reason or another and is just trying to make your life a living hell. Men are usually able to block out these types of things and just put up with the abuse without speaking up. If you haven't already had a serious talk about the way she treats you... I think it's time. If there have been talks in the past, and she isn't getting better, maybe it's time to make your life better and be on your own.
2006-08-07 21:34:31 · answer #2 · answered by Rexy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
consider yourself lucky that she didnt have a full blown rage attack on you...
I think what she's looking for is a little bit of TLC. Even though she doesnt have a job outside the home, just trying to keep up with kids, laundry, dishes, dinner, schedules, ironing, grooming...the list goes on and on, it gets tiring..and she doesnt get paid to do it yknow? So, my suggesstion is ( becasue I know how she feels) is to TELL her that you appriciate your clothes being washed and ready for work, and that you appriciate the dinner she cooked, and every oncein a while grap her butt and tell her how damn sexy she is. My guess is, with alittle positive attention from you, she wont demand quiet as much "HARD LABOR" from you...
lol
2006-08-07 21:37:37 · answer #3 · answered by chicwitpurpose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds kind of inmature.I would just tell her to grow up & act her age,not her IQ.
2006-08-07 21:57:02 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's easier to just get used to saying, 'yes dear, you're right dear, I'll take care of that dear, I'll get right on it dear, I'm sorry dear"
2006-08-07 21:30:57 · answer #5 · answered by nothing 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Demanding? I'm surprised you still call her wife!
2006-08-07 22:22:50 · answer #6 · answered by MrsPTB4Life 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋