How do I say goodbye?

Question

I lost someone close to me and it is had to say goodbye how can I let go but keep the person in my heart

Answer 1

TIme, baby girl time. If you need closure, you could write a letter to the person you lost, light a candle play a song, maybe gather up some tokens from them and keep them in a special place. Moving on and living your life doesn't mean you didn't care about that person...it is ok for you to laugh and love again!

Answer 2

It is very difficult to lose anyone that we are close to. I have lost both of my parents within the past few years. I was very blessed to have them in my life until I was in my forties, but it is still difficult. Grieving is a difficult and lengthy process at any age. You will spend a lot of time crying and thinking about the loss. This is normal, then you will begin thinking about a lot of the great times that you had together, and the pressing sadness will lessen somewhat. Eventually, you will still feel some sadness, but will remember mostly the good times, and the joy and love they brought to your life. This is all part of the healing process. The person will remain in your heart, you will not have to worry about that, it is just a natural occurrence. Always hold them in your thoughts, and they will be a special angel for you looking down from heaven. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Answer 3

You just got to keep in your heart... there's no need to say goodbye to someone you love but will never see again... keep all the memories that you guys had togather and move on... REPEAT: there's no need to say goodbye, how would you want to let all the good feeling go away? You got to love that person as much as you love yourself and move on if you have to

Answer 4

It's always hard to say goodbye to someone but you have to just live your life. Write his/her name down in a journal and keep his/her picture up somewhere. Don't forget but you can't dwell on losing this person. If my friends read this they'd call me a hypocrite because I've struggled for two years now to let go of someone but I don't want you to be like me. I want you to be happy again and live your life normally. Just try to move on but don't forget him/her. I'm sorry for your loss and I'll keep you in my thoughts(prayers if you are Christian).

Answer 5

how long ago did you loose this person? its probably hard to say goodbye because you were very close. you don't have to let go you can always keep in contact or you guys can visit if your friend doesn't live far away.

Answer 6

Sorry for your lose. Memories keep the person in your heart. Letting go takes time and a belief that they are in a better place.

Answer 7

To say goodbye... it sounds incredibly heartbreaking, and I'm sure it is. But you have to think-- if who you lost were with you, would they want you to be upset, or would they want you to smile and move on? Whoever it was, I'm more than sure they would not want to put this heavy of a burden on your shoulders. Just remember, they will always be in your heart. I will pray for you.

Answer 8

Your someone will always be part of you. Even now all you have to do is close your eyes and picture your special someone and feel the same feelings .You see those close to us may leave this world or just your state, but they never leave our hearts.

Answer 9

First of all I am so sorry for your lost... and second I know its hard to get over it all the best thing you can do is talk about them keep pictures of them around keep them alive by doing those thing by that they will live forever... try not to cry for them they are now in a better place... and know of your love...

Answer 10

i was born into death and have had loss all my life,its never easy but the person u lost would probably like u to remember all the love and laughs talk about the good times with someone else who knew them