I have a little girl she is 3 now.I just had a abortion 2 months ago.And pregnant again and don't know what to do?
2006-08-07 14:01:26 · 18 answers · asked by aitifia j 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Do not abort it.
You should keep the baby.
If you don't want it, put it up for adoption.
Abortion is not a form of birth control.
Since you had unprotected sex knowing that you could get pregnant again, you should have the baby.
Not to be mean, but it's true.
2006-08-07 16:01:43 · answer #1 · answered by Kylie<3 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Take responsibility for your sexual actions. You know how babies are made and you know how to prevent them from being made....it is not through abortion. If you do not want this baby look into adoption then get a tubal ligation to prevent this from occuring again. How anyone who already has and loves a child can choose to abort another is beyond me. I would love to have another child and can not.... I have 3 and I could not immagine aborting one then looking at the 3 I have everyday for the rest of my life wondering what that child would have looked like or been like. Take responsibility for your actions. I am all for a woman's right to choose BUT I am not for a woman's right to use abortion as birth control. Look at your 3 year old daughter... do you believe she was not a person until she was born? Didn't you consider her a human from the moment her tiny heart began to beat? Then why do her siblings not deserve the same respect?
I just realized this question is posted in teen and preteen. How old are you? If you are still a child yourself you need to put the baby up for adoption and stop having sex until you are an adult and you can honestly say that if you got pregnant you could handle it. Children shouldn't have children and you don't have to ruin the rest of your life and theirs if you only take responsibility now and learn from your mistakes.
2006-08-07 14:09:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i do not see abortion being the right choice but everyone is entitled to their opinion. it depends on how old you are. i believe that adoption is a much better choice or keep it i mean you have a daughter the age of 3 its past the terrible two's. it also depending on if you are a single mother...that makes things a little more difficult but do not resort to an abortion. you know what the result of sex can be.....why kill an innocent being that hasnt done anything wrong and didnt ask for this situation. you have put yourself in this situation if you do not want to keep this child than i suggest that you put it up for adoption. good luck
2006-08-07 14:10:38 · answer #3 · answered by Samantha D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get birth control, if you just had an abortion, why the heck werent you on birth control, obviously you know that you can get pregnant from having sex. Dont abort this one, go to a local church, or department of children and family services and arrange an adoption, someone will love that child. After it is born talk to your doctor about birth control, if you cant afford it then get medicaid or go to your county health clinic.
2006-08-07 14:07:21 · answer #4 · answered by greeneyedprincess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
use birth control. it will help u from getting an unwanted pregnancy. also, do what u feel comfortable with. ppl telling u that abortion is a no-no is like telling sum1 that they cant buy sumthing since they bought it in a different color. depending on how old u r, having an abortion is ur chocie. i just would not recommend not using birth control and having multiple abortions. thats just wrong
2006-08-07 15:45:18 · answer #5 · answered by somuchluv4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This will be up to you it sounds like you don't want to be pregnant again you should talk to your Dr about this but if you really don't want any more baby's then maybe another abortion is the only way to go. It will have to be up to you.
2006-08-07 14:08:27 · answer #6 · answered by Mrs Magoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have three choices, to have an abortion or to give the child up for adoption or to raise it yourself. What ever you decide, after you should go on the pill. You sound very young and children need mature, thoughtful, responsible parents.
2006-08-07 14:10:44 · answer #7 · answered by jackie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want any more kids right now, but you want to keep on having sex, then you need to get some birth control. Do you plan to keep this baby or have another abortion?
2006-08-07 14:17:10 · answer #8 · answered by Nina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to some one I know it is hard but there is help out there and you should not be alone and you should not make rash decisions and you should get help from some one that loves you and cares do you go to church they would have help full answers and planed parenthood should have help for you but go with you mom or some one to find your answer pray and now that there are people out there that would help you with the new baby don't give up on it some times the hardest things in life are the best
i will be praying for you God Bless
talk to some one
2006-08-07 14:12:35 · answer #9 · answered by endofthetailbunnies 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not abort...that is killing your own child.
You need to learn from your 3 year old that you have now that you cannot be going out here getting pregnant.
Just have the baby and give it up for adoption but do not kill it.
Stop having sex if you do not want these babies.
2006-08-07 14:07:12 · answer #10 · answered by Coast2CoastChat.com 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋