I HAVE BEEN WITH MY BOYFRIEND 10+ YEARS AND WE HAVE 2 KIDS , I HAVE WANTED TO GET MARRIED SINCE THE BEGGINING BUT HE HASNT , I HAVE GOT TO A POINT TO NOT CARE ANY MORE BUT DEEP DOWN INSIDE I DO CARE!
2006-08-07 14:00:19 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yes marriage is very important....you can be with a guy for 100 yrs but the only way youll feel complete and whole is by saying "i do" by making that commitment to each other
2006-08-07 14:09:43 · answer #1 · answered by Voncriss 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you care about him and for the 2 kids. Your kids really want a true father not someone that could call a boyfriends. First of all I always should think about my kids first and how their feeling
2006-08-07 21:07:40 · answer #2 · answered by nhuvu191 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if deep down you care, your feelings probably aren't going to change
Let your bf know how you feel and how important marriage would be to you. He may not even know how you really feel about it, that it really bothers you.
It really doesn't matter what other people think about marriage, it matters what you think about it for you!
2006-08-07 21:10:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You made the mistake 10 years ago, sweetie. You had kids outof wedlock, live together so why should he buy the cow when he gets the milk free???? You compromised yourself.......so now are you paying the price. Get over it or get out!
2006-08-07 21:08:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah sweety marriage is important... I really just want to get through to ppl and let them know marriage is a beautiful thing.
2006-08-07 21:50:23 · answer #5 · answered by lover_of_irish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is the difference now, you have shacked up for so long, you have already set you example for your kids. And seriously does he love you? I mean you have been together fo so long, is he afraid of commitment
2006-08-07 21:09:06 · answer #6 · answered by Right Wing Extremist 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how much you love him, your children and your life together, but you want to make it an official family. If he doesn't understand, do everything you can to make him understand.
2006-08-07 21:10:38 · answer #7 · answered by Heather M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋