So to make it short. My girlfriend wants to have a threesome with another girl and me, at first I thought she was kidding so I played along but now she's reciving pictures from chicks on myspce that are willing thankfully she hasn't found anyone that she considers "hot"(big boobs, not higher than 5'5", around our age 21/22) but I'm really not intrested, any recomendations on talking her out of it
2006-08-07 13:49:31 · 12 answers · asked by ShimZumTod 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I do not think you are crazy,I think 3 somes put alot of stress on a relationship,it may not break you,but it will hurt...
just say how you feel for HER and tell her that YOU will NOT do it.
it gets too messy,one person gets more attention,a special look that was reserved for YOU only etc...just too many what ifs.speaking from experience,If you LOVE her and dont want to make waves,dont do it.
if one is not totally into it there will be SO much trouble!so many hurt feelings,I felt like you liked her more,kissed her more,stuff like that.
its just not worth it,dont try to talk her out of it,just tell her no.and why...if she has to do it..then maybe this relationship isnt something you want to last!not many MEN would be as thoughtful and caring about this..most would be OK babe Lets go.
I commend you for your worries and courage to state your question.Im VERY proud of you and I dont even know you...lol good luck
2006-08-07 14:02:16 · answer #1 · answered by adc7492 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋
I dated a girl who was kinda into the same thing. She was psycho. She suggested a threesome. I didn't want to do it. When people want that, I think it's because they aren't committed to the relationship they're in. You alone should be enough to satisfy her and vice versa.
2006-08-07 14:28:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, you should consider yourself pretty lucky... any other guy would dream for their girlfriends to say something like that... If I were you I'd give her anything she wanted...
2006-08-07 13:57:11 · answer #3 · answered by Dood 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say u dont wanna do it..and if she respects you and loves and really wonts to be with you then she will say okay..plus it sounds to me like she wonts to be with a girl more then males anyway...u might wanna check that out
2006-08-07 13:57:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would only do it if I wanted to and I knew the people for a long time. dont do anything you dont want to do
2006-08-07 13:56:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her "no..." And yes, obviously from the details you just ever so casually let slip by, you're not even VAGUELY interested... Right...
2006-08-07 13:55:51 · answer #6 · answered by KnowhereMan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, I would dump this chic.....she is bad news and is acting like a cheap whore! If you don't move on, don't complain.....you reap what you sow.
2006-08-07 13:55:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her the truth. Tell her that you are not into threesomes.
2006-08-07 13:55:40 · answer #8 · answered by thebillshow2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say no and if she respects you and the relationship, she won't pressure you.
2006-08-07 13:55:22 · answer #9 · answered by aquarian77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you say yes dear.
2006-08-07 14:23:44 · answer #10 · answered by casheye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋