I'm 13 and my boyfriend wants to have sex with me. Should I?

Question

he's 13 too.

Answer 1

If you're asking other people for advice it's because you're not ready. You are to young and he should not make you do something you don't want to. Having sex is something you decide on your own, it's because you're in love and you are to young to be in love. I was 17 and thought I was in love. I met my husband at 25 and then I realized what true love really is.

You need to wait. go do sports have fun. sex is a very serious things it's not something you just do or undo.

Answer 2

ill agree with most people and say that you should wait, these other kids at your school who are undoubtedly putting pressure on you to have sex ..and including your BF, youll probably only know for a few small years of your life that youll find out later.. really were not important at all. So why make such a big decison that will effect your life in the long run, based in a time of such small importance?

Think of this too.. This is a guy we are talking about. the fundamental difference when it comes between men and women is Men just think sex is sex. Women jumble Sex with feelings of Love. So if hes a smart guy hes already told you he loves you, because he already knows that women in general have this confusion and hes playing you. Believe me all this guy wants at 13 is to you. Nothing more, nothing less.

One last thing. before making this decision think long and hard that this guy will be forever the guy you had your first time with. It will be a memory you keep FOREVER. Is this the guy you want to remember it with when your 85 and toothless?

Answer 3

When I was your age, the last thing one wanted was to be seen with, was somebody of the opposite sex. But then, we had a lot of things to do, like playing sports, or trying to make a few $ by cleaning the neighbors yard. Today with 13 you think that you know everything there is to know, and if you are not sure, you can check it out on the Internet. Be a happy teenager for a few more years, you don't need to ruin your life with 13.

Answer 4

That is such a young age....this is how I would put it into perspective. Don't have sex until you are ready to deal with any repercussions. If you think you are mature, financially stable, and could provide for a child in all the ways possible...which would most likely mean never graduating from high school and never pursuing any dreams you had because you got pregnant too early...then that's a choice you have to make for yourself. Not to mention all the diseases that are out there and incurable.

But, at 13 your body isn't sexually mature and you aren't going to enjoy it as much as you would if you wait until you are older. Plus...if you have to ask if you should or shouldn't, then you obviously would only be doing it because he wants to. Wait until you are ready!!!! It's pretty obvious that you aren't.

Answer 5

I don't think that you should. There are way too many emotional and health-related issues tied up in sex to start so young. I wouldn't have been ready to handle sex drama at 13 for sure! I'm not one of those who thinks that sex is just for marriage and baby making, but I do think that you should really think hard about who you choose to have sex with and why. If you are doing it to impress people, or just to make him happy, then absolutely don't do it! When you decide to have sex, it should be because you are certain that you want to experience it with a particular person (whether married or not) and shouldn't be about proving anything to anyone. If and when you do decide to have sex, please be careful too! Use birth control and condoms so you don't get pregnant or catch a disease.

Answer 6

Hi 13 year old girl! I am sure you are a really cool and modern young girl and you feel sexy and wanted. However, you should really reconsider this decision. Please, I beg you! You are too young and tender to experience this at your 13 years of age. I'm sure your hormones are going up and down but I can assure you that it's not what you imagine it to be. If I may suggest, when you feel wanted, take a deep breath and think that you are a jewel and should wait for a better time in your life to have sex. Take it easy girl! Don't rush life! Love yourself! Respect yourself!

Answer 7

Absolutely not! Not only are you too young emotionally, but in ALL 50 states, it is ILLEGAL for either of you to have sex at your age. It's just not worth it. Sex is an adult activity and it has some pretty serious results. Don't ruin your youth . . . be young, not a 13-year old adult. Adulthood will come all too soon.

Answer 8

Okay... I think that if you really like this guy and you two have been going out for a while, then i dont see anything wrong with it... BUT, you are using this yahoo answer thing to see if you should have sex or not? i dont think you are ready because if you were, you would have done it alreadya nd you wouldnt be worried about it. Just wait until you FEEL ready! Dont rush it and just go do any guy. You need to wait.

Answer 9

No you are way too young. you need to wait. just think about the consequences...do you really want a baby at 13? could you give it the kind of care it needed. this is always a possibility no matter how careful you are. you could even get an std. so no you shouldn't.

Answer 10

Two 13 year old parents. Sound good? I answered a question on here from a pregnant 14 yo girl and her bf was 14. Do you want to be them? Do you want to end your childhood? Be up at all hours every time baby cries? Or decide to abort your baby? Or give it up and never see it again your whole life?
No, you do not.
Wait!!