I've been married for 3 years and love my husband. About 3 months into our marriage, my husband asked to see me with another man. I obliged and it became a regular thing, my husband would bring home new friends and watch them with me. Something that was once a month became once a week and now after more than 2 years was often every other day. I sometimes feel used but other times I enjoy the excitement. I just want fulfill my husband's fantasies, but now I wonder if my husband really loves me?
2006-08-07 13:17:42 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
sounds like your husband has some serious issues.......i think it is possible that he loves you, but not the way you need or want to be loved......it sounds as if he has some deep resentments towards women, and feels the need to degrade them...there is nothing wrong with some healthy freak shows in the bedroom, but sounds like he has taken it a little far....
2006-08-07 13:25:43 · answer #1 · answered by babygurl 5 · 12⤊ 4⤋
So, basically, she left him, married someone else and then found out the new guy was no prince? Your husband is a fool. She's probably happy enough when her husband is giving her what she wants, and only "loves" yours (or other men) when she is feeling ignored. Point this out to your husband, and tell him that because he fell for this, you've lost respect for him. Tell him you want to be married to someone who is going to love you for you and won't be so eager to let another woman invade your lives. You say this to make him dislike her. My guess is that he said those things because he was so flattered by her attention. It would be very hard to ignore someone who had left you for someone else coming back and saying they regretted the decision. However, many men would have cheated and he didn't. That tells me that he really DOES love you but was caught up in the flattery of the moment. I would stay married if he starts to see her for what she is ... a troublemaker ... but not if he's going to keep her on pedestal. Good luck.
2016-03-27 02:56:42 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does my husband love me?
2014-12-13 07:17:45 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it affecting your relationship with your husband? Are you starting to resent him for it? If you answered yes to one or both of those questions, you may want to tell him your feelings. Seems like he loves the fact that he's pimping you out.
2006-08-07 13:26:49 · answer #4 · answered by babe_in_the_country 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's big issues in your marriage, hon. If your husband is bringing home a different guy every other day for you to sleep with and him to watch, he is encouraging you to abuse your body. Marriage is a sacred bond between two people, not between two people and all of his friends.......respect yourself and your body and don't allow for this to go on anymore. Who knows if he really loves you....doesn't sound like he does much to me since he is asking (or making) you abuse your body for his selfish 'needs'..........
2006-08-07 13:54:27 · answer #5 · answered by bluez 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not love. I think this fulfills some sick fantasy of his. I dont know of any man in love that would be willing to share his lover with anyone. What first may have seemed exciting is going to be the downfall of your marriage. You have become his living, breathing, sex toy. wind her up and watch her go. I feel for you. Sit this man down and end this. What you have it not a marriage.
2006-08-07 13:25:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hon you don't know what if anything these men have. i hope you're using protection and from the sounds of it your husband, and i do use that term loosely, is prostituting you out. I'd get out and save yourself some heartache
2006-08-07 13:38:01 · answer #7 · answered by christina s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who's better? Backstreet Boys or O'Town?
2016-10-22 05:11:35 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is...weird. If you're just doing this to please your husband, I'd get out of the marriage. Never compromise yourself for someone else! Be your own person. I think that is an odd thing to ask for, though... Just weird...
2006-08-07 13:23:04 · answer #9 · answered by Slippers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is he doing, trying to get you and his friend to make porn?
This is NOT normal behavior at all from your husband; you two should go see a marriage counselor to straighten things out.
2006-08-07 13:22:42 · answer #10 · answered by yofatcat1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are an enabler: Your husband is a psychological pervert who has no respect for either himself or you. Disappear and file for divorce. What on earth made you even consider this? You must have zero morals yourself, or gave up your morals to please a maniac.
2006-08-07 13:23:46 · answer #11 · answered by Legandivori 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋