Im 14 and he is 23 and we both like each other.But he also got a daughter. Should we start going out.Cause he ask me out today and he is so sweet.
2006-08-07 13:02:28 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I know at 14 you think you are grown up and mature enough to handle stuff like that. I thought so when I was 14. But now that I am older I wish I would have listened to the people who told me I was too young. I was but didn't realize it. To go out with a guy who is 23 when you are 14 is just gross! I know you think I don't get it, but trust me, I have been there. They say you'll understand when you get older and you think, "yeah, right" but lemme tell ya...it's true. Learn from my mistakes. I did go out with the older guy and now I know how wrong it was. He's lucky he didn't end up in jail! Do you want the guy you like to end up in jail because of you??? Think about it........you can't have much in common. He has a kid and he is way to old for you. Go out with a guy your own age. It's much better that way. When you are in high school he will be almost 30.........do you really want to be with a guy that old??? Yuck!
2006-08-07 13:13:44 · answer #1 · answered by sunnydayzd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, first of all, you are way too young. I don't care if he loves you-- you're too young.
Second of all, he doesn't love you. No offense, BUT THERE IS SOMETHING WRONG with a 23 year old guy if he has romantic feelings for a 14 year old girl. Seriously, once you grow up a little you'll realize that I am right.
There is no normal, in-check, 23 year old guy who would be interested in a relationship with a 14 year old girl.
I know it's hard to hear, but you have to get out of this potential relationship before it is too late. He obviously has no respect for himself, and more importantly, no respect for you.
Good luck.
2006-08-07 13:09:06 · answer #2 · answered by doubled254 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say don't cuz of the age difference and the level of maturity. If you look at it this way, it's like your getting married at 14. Then you'd have a daughter that's only a few years younger than you. And besides, there was once this movie star that married somone around that age and in ,like, a year they divorced. I'm telling you it won't turn out well.
2006-08-07 13:13:47 · answer #3 · answered by etienneshorty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wake up call!!! If a 23 yr old is interested in a 14 yr old they must be really immature, is a pedophile, has control issues, or whatever. I bet you think its really cool that he likes you. But I bet he will hurt you! Plus its not legal if you sleep with him. Its called statutory rape. Wake up girl. It sounds like nothing but trouble!
2006-08-07 13:11:48 · answer #4 · answered by sissy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T GO THERE!
He is an ADULT, not a BOY!
If he has a child, he obviously has had sex, and you are only 14 - TOO YOUNG for that stuff.
Wait a while. Learn about life before you make such an important decision.
2006-08-07 13:07:16 · answer #5 · answered by None 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are stupid to go out with him
He'll bang you
You'll get pregnant
Then you'll have to take care of the kid
Drop out of school
End up in poverty
Then your kid will continue the cycle because they won't know any better (look at your stupid decisions)
You'll be a grandmother at 30
Think it can't happen?
Ask the dumb b*tch he screwed before
2006-08-07 13:07:20 · answer #6 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
till you reside in a state the place you could desire to pay for newborn help till they end college this is many times till the newborn reaches 22-23 i don't see how the hell you're nevertheless paying newborn help.You paid 5 years too many &&&
2016-11-04 02:26:41 · answer #7 · answered by mcthay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
youre 14 and hes 23 not good .. you should probably stay away from him... he might seem nice in the beggining but after the truth comes out.... so just becareful...and hold off on sex
2006-08-09 08:51:32 · answer #8 · answered by gabbz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is soooooooooooooooo disgusting! You should know better. EWWW. That is just sick. You would have to be a sicko to go out with him. Think about it. His daughter has some friends over and one of her friends ask, "why is your sister makeing out with your dad?" ewwwwwwwwwww thats just...........wrong.
2006-08-07 13:13:43 · answer #9 · answered by Linzi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he married? If he has a child, then he could be capable of giving you a baby as well. What do you like about him? What does he like about you? Is it a sexual or an emotional feeling?
Be careful of what you wish for.
2006-08-07 13:09:31 · answer #10 · answered by thebillshow2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋