My girlfriend does not fill beautiful at all.How can I boost her esteem and make her fill better?
2006-08-07 12:54:11 · 9 answers · asked by from your dreams 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Darling young man, you are very sweet. Something had to happen where someone injured her self esteem and YOU see her beauty and worth. She is protecting herself, by thinking that if she rejects herself and then you ultimately reject her...she proved her point. She does need help to see her beauty, her worth, and you have to be strong enough to stand by her that by loving her, and HER accepting your love (right now she is rejecting everything)...will be the way towards her internal healing. You are really sweet and she is so lucky to have you (she doesn't know it yet).
2006-08-07 13:03:57 · answer #1 · answered by Marilyn C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She had a bf and she feels low? Something is wrong there...there are many gorgeous girls out there who doesn't have a bf because "no one wants them"...let her know she's one of the lucky ones...I think for you being her bf you should make her feel good about herself, compliment her regularly...
2006-08-07 13:03:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can't. it comes from within. she has obviously been hurt previously...no matter how many times you tell her,she will not feel beautiful.acept her as she is,or move on.(but i like the fact you're trying to boost her esteem)
2006-08-08 08:05:02 · answer #3 · answered by BellaDonna 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I think I have that problem my boyfriend always made me feel better about my self though.............he always told me I was beautiful .... and I like gorgeous .... and it felt like he really ment it ... you have to say things like that all the time and tell her you like her for who she is not what the outside looks like just tell her she is beautiful not hott or sexy unless she is really dressed up for that specail occation anyways well I hope i helped alittle bit I did try though well good luck boosting up your girlfriend
2006-08-07 13:02:06 · answer #4 · answered by Melanie<3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take her on a shopping spree. Take her to get a facial. Tell her how beautiful she is. Take her to get her nails and feet done. Love her.
2006-08-07 12:59:11 · answer #5 · answered by thugangel19842002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
appreciate her....n i mean a lot!! tell her she s pretty , u love her...u love the way she smiles....but dont flatter her too much....she might get suspect it then
also when she does something special for u ....like clean up d place tell her she did an amazing job
also tell her not to compare herself as no one compares to her!
best of luck
2006-08-07 13:03:04 · answer #6 · answered by victoria 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I bet she likes sex. Anyway buy her something. & IF your old enough take her somewhere overnight., Rent a Pontoon boat to cruise around (pretty cheap to do)
2006-08-07 13:02:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only thing you can do is to make her feel special build her confidence tell her how good she looks or how much you love her, she needs reasurance with your help she should be ok.
2006-08-07 13:03:33 · answer #8 · answered by KATIEKAT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't love her because she is beautiful...
She's beautiful because you love her...
2006-08-07 13:10:34 · answer #9 · answered by denh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋