how to trust your husband again after he cheated i really love him?

Answer 1

no way. the relation is over for me.

let me ask you some questions :

do you bear to imagine im with another woman ? do you bear how he touched, what he said, how he smiled, etc. ? can you touch with him again ? wont you think whether he still thinks of other women or that woman ?

no way.

Answer 2

The ageless Question Love and hurt .
Can you trust him again ?that's the big question
is he going to be unfaithful again?
Can you bear the pain if he cheats again ? I believe that most guys are hunters , They look for other women its just that some balance up weather the loss out ways their pleasure . , I guess in your case your guy didn't think about what is being killed trust and the glue that binds your marriage .Only you can say if you can repair the broken bond . you may forgive but can you find trust .

Answer 3

I agree- once a cheater alway a cheater. I feel that anyone that cheats on there spouse has no respect for themselves or the person they love. Sometimes they are a coward, they want out of the relationship and feel this is the best way.
Take the hint and leave, it will never be the same.

Answer 4

you never will once trust has been broken it can not be repaired. That is the ultimate rip your heart out is a cheater. If he wanted to sleep with someone else he should have ended it or told you to give you the chance to make any decision. Sorry it will always be in the back of your mind.

Answer 5

I dont mean to sound blunt or so straight to the point, but the answers simple.....You wont trust him again!
This man, you seem certain that you love so much has just destroyed your faith in man itself! Y...so he could get his willy wet with some tramp!!
If you try to trust him, every day you'll wake up wondering if hes up to no good, was there anyone b4 this one, was it cos he got caught that he admitted it.....the amount of questions going thru your head must b beating you up inside! i really do feel for you, u r so hurt by what hes done so if your going to brush it aside and try again then good luck! its one of the hardest things to continue after! xx

Answer 6

Trust is earned and in order to regain this it is going to take time and reassurance from him that he is going to make every attempt to be true to you. You can talk until your blue in the face, but actions always speak louder than words. This just takes time. Time for you to forgive and time for him to prove he can be trusted. This can be overcome with lots of love and commitment. Lines of communication need to be wide open.

Answer 7

Perhaps you may need to change your definition of Love. When someone cheats, their needs are not being met at home. Sounds like he is just not into you. Women like you seem to always settle for crumbs.....if you stay with him and accept his cheating then you get what you deserve so stop complaining.....pick your poison!

Answer 8

he can make it up to you, but the more he does, the more your love will fade away, it is very difficult i know but how do u knw he aint cheating again???? even if he doesnt cheat, you still love him..cuz love is blind and its another way of saying two souls have untied, he is just not the right guy, im sorry to say, but , only medicine is time, to heal ur wounds

Answer 9

I'm guessing that you will have to learn that . It may not come back on it's own. Try not to treat him like a criminal. Hopefully, he has taken responsibility and is acting accordingly. Do not take any responsibility for his action. He made the choice.

Answer 10

Well, all l can say is, you can forgive but you cant forget and you wont.trust is something earned.he lost it when he cheated,its up to him to earn it back.