we have both put on weight and now have 4 kids he is a truck driver only home from fri. night to sun. afternoon but no man ever made me feel as good as him he took his time on foreplay and sex couldnt have gotten better now we never have time we always have something to do or we go to bed late so were to tired to do anything and when we do have sex there is not much foreplay and no time put into sex he used to make me feel so good about myself he does even tell me i look good anymore help he is my everything my love what can i do to make him want me more
2006-08-07 12:31:51 · 16 answers · asked by tired mom 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
So Friday get a babysitter, and when he gets home, have a nice candle light dinner, wine, and you in a sexy nightie. You need to take time out for the both of you, but remember he works long hours, and is tired. Yes my hubby is a truck driver too.
2006-08-07 12:38:42 · answer #1 · answered by Right Wing Extremist 7 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Maybe its a medical problem. I always had a high sex drive, It started to fall off quickly several years back. I went to my doctor. He did a blood test and found out my testostrone level was low. I now have to have injections once a month ( I do them at home). Now my wife doe'nt care for sex anymore. Totally ignors me and is talking about devorce everytime we have a small arguement. Guess I can't win. Anoughter thing, Ever eat a big pot of spaggetti for a week? It gets old after a couple of days. We'll I hate to compare you to a pot of spaggetti, but i guess thats just my way of redneck thinking. Anyway what I'm trying to say is maybe you just need to wake him up. Try somthing new. Go to an adult novelty store and buy some playthings and massage oil. Not trying to get ugly here just trying to help. Check out the sex swings, buy one and take it home. I assure you he will like that.Other than that just talk to him and find out what he likes, you may be supprised. Good luck and sorry for such a long post. Tim
2006-08-07 19:53:48 · answer #2 · answered by timslim1963 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel ur pain sista. My man on the other hand comes from work everyday like at 8 p.m., eats, showers, watches t.v. and then goes to sleep cuz he claims to be tired. At times i think he might be with some1 else but at other times i try to believe he is really tired. Honestly I would suggest dressing sexy and starting up the fire. Maybe that can work. If you don't feel comfortable with the whole dress up part then just start it off with a nice massage to loosen up the tension in his body. Maybe the massage is all it takes to unleash that man and the foreplay.
2006-08-07 19:40:51 · answer #3 · answered by Jersey Girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch Out!! I watch Oprah and from what they say, supposedly
theres a lot of prostitution going on at truck stops. Could be a sign. Or it could just be a combination of being tired, not having time or the privacy with the kids.
2006-08-07 20:20:10 · answer #4 · answered by Summer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he comes home nex time make sure you have a babysitter or at the very least have them ALL in bed. You need some couple time. Men love sex you just need to spice it up. Wear something he would like, a little perfume he likes, fix yourself up. Men like a woman to take the bull by the horns at times, this is one of those times.
2006-08-07 19:39:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, here is a simple idea...both of you lose some weight, you can start working out 1/2 hour a day and get your figure back. IF he sees you doing it, perhaps he will do it too. See if that doesn't work wonders. Good luck
2006-08-07 19:36:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be like you used to be when it was good, plus the two of you have to take time out to be together, go to a motel and rent the room for a night or weekend, just for the 2 of you.
2006-08-07 19:40:22 · answer #7 · answered by Cobra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont want to alarm you but he may be getting it elsewhere.But I am just saying it could be dont quote me ,he may just be tired also he may need a check up drivers sometimes have heart problems.Too little moving around. I sure wouldnt want to upset you. Most likly not
2006-08-07 19:43:57 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel that way to sometimes
this is what i do to get him in to me
put the kids to bed early if he takes a shower before you just right in with him remember it mite start in the shower and end up just about anywhere
2006-08-07 19:49:57 · answer #9 · answered by rene 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to slow the u know what down, and enjoy what time u guys have left
2006-08-07 19:41:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋