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ive know this dude for 6yr and we are best friends but now i feel more and i know he does to so what should we do just stay friends or what?

2006-08-07 12:21:43 · 16 answers · asked by dolly w 2 in Family & Relationships Friends

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Yes it is definitely okay. If he loves you back then it should be ok. I feel the same way with my bestfriend but was wishy washy about my feelings about her and wasn't able to tell her asap. The thing is, I finally realized that I do love her very much and would like to have a deeper relationship with her. When I thought that the timing was right I was going to tell her. She just got off her relationship with her asswipe bf, and was again available. When I was about to tell her, she dropped a bomb on me which totally changed everything and totally disintegrated my plans for confession. Her asswipe ex got her pregnant! She is in a mess because she is not ready to have a baby yet. And being Catholic Christians, abortion is not an option. So, right now is not the time for me to tell her. What she needs now is support and I am gonna give her support. So for now I'll just be here for her. So, what I'm trying to say is to let him know what you really feel inside while the fire is still burning and hopefully if everything is right then you could get together and be in a wonderful relationship. Good Luck!!

2006-08-07 12:49:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

That;s a tricky one, sometimes it works out cause you already know so much about each other, but then that leaves out the fun of getting to know somebody for the first time. Plus what if it does not work out? Are you guys gonna feel real weird about it afterwards and that could ruin the whole friendship. Talk to him about see what he says,make sure that you are both on even ground that way it leaves less of a chance of someone getting hurt in the long run.

2006-08-07 19:27:19 · answer #2 · answered by t_kleitz 2 · 0 0

It's natural. You just have to ask yourself if these feelings are strong enough to risk a friendship over. Does he feel the same way? Would the relationhip have a future? I say go for it. Sounds like it has better chance than some guy you just met. Most relationships start as friends.

2006-08-07 19:28:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Friendships with a different sex bring complication with them. normally only one person falls for the other while the other just wants to be friends and makes things uncomfortable. however in your case you both are having feelings so you should grasp the opportunity. If you feel weird about it take it slowly, but I think you will be alright. Love happens, should not fight it if there is nothing against it.

Good luck to you
Gregory

2006-08-07 19:33:01 · answer #4 · answered by Gregory 2 · 0 0

if your best friend and him are really feelin eachother and they really have something going for eachother then if you did something that would be messed up.. if you are her tru friend then you wouldnt do that to her..if they dont have a relationship all like that.. then what the hell.. talk to your girlfriend about it and let her know how u really feel..she might get mad and upset about it, but theres always a small chance she will understand!! good luck! and try not to mess up anyones relationship!! good friends are hard to find! best wishes**

2006-08-07 19:28:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

You can try and be more. Its sometimes akward in the beginning. It sometimes can ruin the friendship. But if you're both adult about it and it doesnt work out you can still be friends. My best friend and I tried it and it didnt work. He and I are still friends and have been for 13yrs.

2006-08-07 19:26:48 · answer #6 · answered by taz4x4512 4 · 0 0

You can like your best friend. But DO NOT ask him out. That will RUIN your friendship. I suggest to keep it to yoursself.

2006-08-08 11:48:45 · answer #7 · answered by rissapissa94 2 · 0 0

Yes, you should, i mean, why not. He is a person, he is not gonna eat or kill u...Just tell him:

"Hey...Look, I know we are best friend but...You know, i really like you...If you coould please give me a chance..." That's all. I am sure he'll feel the same way. If you saw him with another girl one time...hes not worth it...

2006-08-07 19:28:24 · answer #8 · answered by Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ Lisamaria. 3 · 0 0

You can LIKE whoever you want. But if your best friend is with him, you can't do anything about it. Friends are few and far between.

2006-08-07 19:26:12 · answer #9 · answered by Yeah, Toast! 2 · 0 0

yes its ok i like this girl that iv know for 7 yrs and she likes me but we're afaid that ppl will make fun of us shes a freashman im in 8th grade,can you help me ,too plz

2006-08-07 19:26:37 · answer #10 · answered by Tater_Salad 2 · 0 0

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