i am working at a supermarket for 5.15/hr
it sucks. but, my boss offered me a raise if i sleep with her?
she's kinda cute, but married with kids. what should i do?
2006-08-07 12:16:37 · 24 answers · asked by trisha m 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
My first thought is: Don't lower yourself for money. If you aren't into her, then don't do it. A raise isn't worth it, even a whole 25 cents and hour more ;)
However: If you want to sleep with her, then do it... but realize that she exploiting you for sex. To be honest, it sounds like a situation that can get real messy. Why? Someone who is willing to hold a raise over you for sex can definately pull out other nasty tricks when she wants to.
My recommendation: If you want to do it, do it without the raise. If it goes well... she will give you one anyways when the time comes. If not, she has nothing over you. But definately don't do it just for a couple more coins an hour.
2006-08-07 12:45:42 · answer #1 · answered by adjezhri 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get her on tape saying it and sue her ***. Then you will have way more then 5.15 per hour you may be about to own the whole supermarket yourself. LOL. But they have cell phones with tape recorders on it so you can talk to her on the phone about it and tape her or you can take her in person just make sure the phone is somewhere that can be heard. Remember this is sexual harassment.
2006-08-07 12:21:10 · answer #2 · answered by thugangel19842002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
can u say sexual Discrimination??? is that the only thing you have to raise up outta there? what she's gonna offer you? NOTHING!! and that money ain't worth jack cause you slept basically for something you should have gotten on your work performance, not your personal intimate stuff. you have good grounds for a discrimination suit if you wish to go there. but paperwork is a must.
2006-08-07 13:14:24 · answer #3 · answered by savvyladydiamond 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please report this to the company's human resource department.
This is a prime example of sexual harassment. You will not only collect big money from a lawsuit from her, but the corporation.
Get her address under the pretense of your coming over. Have your attorney send her a letter there, and human resources about what is coming down.
She thinks you are an ignorant loser. That's why she is doing this.
2006-08-07 12:33:13 · answer #4 · answered by Credit Expert 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't sleep with her over a raise, as in the long run you will lose more. I don't work at the supermark and know of the things you go through as in the end.
It is up to you to know were to go from there.
2006-08-07 12:28:48 · answer #5 · answered by Premio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, it is called sexual harrasment and is illegal for her to bribe you like that. Also, do you have any proof that she will give you the raise? I doubt that you could ever prove that she said it, so you may have nothing to gain by doing anything with her.
2006-08-07 12:24:11 · answer #6 · answered by LittleMermaid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Agree to sleep with her, but tell her it must be at a motel, or somewhere you can control. Then have a friend secretly take photos. Then blackmail her sorry A*SS!!
2006-08-07 12:25:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is sexual harassment. for $5.15 an hour, you can find a better job than that! didn't you know that guys can be sexually harassed?
2006-08-07 12:23:01 · answer #8 · answered by monarchfly7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you dont care about your job, but your into being with her, then go for it. Otherwise, you might want to see about finding a new job.
2006-08-07 13:13:49 · answer #9 · answered by doublejump43 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awww you are probably very pretty but a lesbian. Guys are way better. heed my advice get another job.
2006-08-07 12:22:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋