ok so i have this one friend who met this gut that i like and she said that she didnt like him she only liked his stomach and that she wouldnt even talked to him if i wanst around and then i and im tlking to this guy i like over myspace and he is telling me all this stuff like she wants to have sex wit him and she going to sneak out to his house. and i really like this and i know that im uglier than my frined and she can get anything she wants but i really really like this guy so what do i do?
2006-08-07 12:13:46 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Are you sure he wasn't makin all that crap up? do you have real evidence? I know you like this guy and all but are you ready to take his word over the word of your friend? are you ready to potentionally ruine your friendship with her over a guy(sorry for me putting it this blunt) who wont be around in a year? I'm sorry but most people can tell when you like them, and maybe he doesn't return those feelings so he's coping a lie to try to push you away, OR he does like you too and hes trying to speed up the process thinking that you'll put out if you think that it'll put you closer to him then your friend. Truely think about this for a while do you truelly trust her with ever other aspect of your friendship? has she ever led you to believe that she'd stab you in the back like that? give her the benifet of the bout...and just talk to her about what he said, don't make accusations, just tell her that its crap that he's saying stuff like that to you knowing she's your friend. See if she freaks out over it or if she gets a little nervous when you mention it. Check for facial give aways, if her first remark is defenseful then start to worry, but if she gets pissed that this guys making up this crap then there's nothing to worry about...trust your gut!!!
2006-08-07 12:29:38 · answer #1 · answered by sassy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is this guy really worth all the touble, plus why he is telling you what your friend said in the first place? Has he done anything with her, if so he's not worth it. And I know what it is like to have your friend sneak around your back, I had one friend who dated my ex who I was not over and it broke my heart. But I was the better person and realized it is not worth it. There is so much more out there, and the whole thing about you not feeling pretty? Who cares what others think, with all the things going on who has time to worry, nobody is perfect, you are who you are supposed to be, if people would stop spending so much time on what they look like and more time doing the things they love they would die happy. beauty is so overrated, I know I am nothing to brag about but it doesn't matter cause nobody is perfect. :O)
2006-08-07 12:21:45 · answer #2 · answered by t_kleitz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well she isnt a friend i think u should cut the strings loose with this one. He isnt worth it and frineds dont do friends that way, your too fabulous anyway think of it like that girl. Move on and find another crush it will be hard but thats why im here, Milly
2006-08-07 12:20:09 · answer #3 · answered by milly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First...Nobody is uglier than someone else, nobody is prittier than someone else, we're all the same thing...
Second...She is not your friend because a friend wouldn't steal the guy you like...Besides, she doesn't even like him, you said she the only thing that she likes about him is his stomach. So, get over that guy, and get another one, there are more people in the world...Besides, he is already taken.
I tell u again... GET ANOTHER FRIEND TOO!! she aint ur friend girl!
2006-08-07 12:20:53 · answer #4 · answered by Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ Lisamaria. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all....you need to gain some self esteem. If you keep telling yourself that you are uglier, then you are going to believe it and continue to treat yourself this way.
This girl is obviously not your friend. She would have not step foot near him if she was. And honestly...this guy is only going to be concerned with the sex part of your friends
So, I say dumb them both and move on
2006-08-07 12:21:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
One, she is not your friend two, don't doubt yourself you are probably a beautiful person she maybe beautiful but every man likes different things, It sounds like she is going after your man just because she thinks that she can you need to talk to her and him and If I was you i would leave thing girl alone. you have to love you or no one else will....... good luck
2006-08-07 12:21:18 · answer #6 · answered by jennf56 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks arnt everything. If he is talking to her and not letting her know that he is interested in you and not her, then chances are that he is interested in her. You should confront her though, letting her know what he is claiming. She may say it is not true but you will never know if you dont talk to her.
2006-08-07 12:20:49 · answer #7 · answered by LittleMermaid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Evidently she lied, either get another crush or another friend.
2006-08-07 12:20:19 · answer #8 · answered by firecracker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
set her up find out wat shes really about......talk to her on three way....ask her all diffrent kind of qustion based on info that he gave u.....but dont make it seem like ur goin to b angry laugh about the answers that she gives u.....belive me ive done it to many times and it always works for me.....
2006-08-07 12:19:25 · answer #9 · answered by Angie M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her how you feel then beat the crap out of her... i don't see a problem with that....
2006-08-07 12:19:07 · answer #10 · answered by jessie_nicole_lugo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋