tell me if u think im a good mom. ok here is the story. i got pregnant and when i told my boyfriend he left me and gave me $100 and told me that he didnt want to have to do anything with the baby. i wanted the baby to have a father and to have a good life so i started dating people in my early months of pregnancy and see if any of them were father material, and if i love them and their nice i would mary them so the baby could have the father. do you ask why i did this? well i was thinking about my baby, and it is to horrible to even think of a abortion. i found the perfect man for the job and when it started to show that i was pregnant i told him. he was suprisingly alright with it!! aparently he wanted kids and he really loved me so we got married.i loved him to but (i no this sounds horrible) i just wanted a father for my child. the bay is a healthy little boy and we have a very happy marrage, but right after the baby was born.. see mi other question 4 the rest of the story.
2006-08-07 12:07:50 · 20 answers · asked by kb♥NICKJONAS 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Newborn & Baby
so far this sounds interesting...
2006-08-07 12:12:41 · answer #1 · answered by Autumn_Anne 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally i wouldnt have done that if i were you...if the father left...get child support from him, b/c it takes two to tango, he made that baby so now he has to be responsible also. i would have stayed single, i know it is important that a child has both a mother and father figure in their life but i would think it might be hard for the child when u have to break the news that the man he thought was his father isnt really his father and that u married him out of desperation...personally, i would rather be fatherless than to have some guy off the street be my dad...
i know u had good intentions in doing what u did but i dont think that was the best thing to do...sooner or later ur going to have to tell ur son the truth and agian, it might be hard on him...
right now, just take care of ur son the best u can, and u have to deal w/ this eventually, just be careful how u approach it in the future...
good luck w/ everything =) and congrats!
2006-08-07 19:16:42 · answer #2 · answered by ξℓ Çђαηφσ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could not find other question. If you and your husband and baby are happy, I am happy for you. I do not know the laws of your state, but in Texas, a child born to a married couple is the child of that couple; a biological father cannot claim paternity here unless the husband of the mother denies paternity. I do not know what state you are in and what the laws are, but in many, the child belongs to your husband.
2006-08-07 19:18:09 · answer #3 · answered by ValleyViolet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DID YOU TELL THAT MAN YOU WHERE ALREADY PREGNANT OR DOES HE THINK HE GOT YOU PREGNANT???
QUESTION 4?
MORE of the story???
OK for this part IF you did not tell the man about the baby until after you had sex and LEAD him to think the baby is HIS then you have committed FRAUD and broke the law.
IF you were honest upfront and told him that you got pregnant BEFORE HIM and he is OK with it then that is a very nice man...
NEXT????
2006-08-07 19:19:31 · answer #4 · answered by Samuella SilverSelene 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's better to raise a baby by yourself in love and happiness, than to snag a guy for the sole purpose of being a Father.
2006-08-07 19:11:45 · answer #5 · answered by Imani 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say your a good mother because you just want the best for your child. I hope everything turns out ok in the rest of your story because so far it sounds interesting.
Ciao
2006-08-07 19:17:11 · answer #6 · answered by a_cute_girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand. Right after the baby was born you started watching 'without a trace'? You can click 'add additonal details' to add the rest of the story.
2006-08-07 19:12:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
absolutely ridiculous. Your example to your child should be an equally loving relationship BASED on love.... you could have fallen in love when your child was young - or older, IT DOESN'T MATTER. What do you truly want for your child? To be in a marriage that serves a purpose or to wait for that special person that means the world to them? WHAT IS WRONG WITH PEOPLE, THESE QUESTIONS ARE TRULY DISTURBING!
2006-08-11 16:19:19 · answer #8 · answered by Melissa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right after the baby was born you became obsessed with Without a Trace...?
2006-08-07 19:14:06 · answer #9 · answered by anonymous 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2006-08-07 19:13:18 · answer #10 · answered by Lynette♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its good for you to find a father for the baby, but when the baby grows up, you have to tell him/her that the (present father) isnt the real "birth" father... don't keep it from him/her until he/she finds out, he/she will be hurt
~~ you are a pretty good mom
what i dont get is you said "see my other question for rest of the story??? "
2006-08-07 19:19:01 · answer #11 · answered by dragonweaver 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋