my sister is 7 months pregnant with her second child....?

Question

and she is not married yet, she has it all wrong she gets pregnant then gets married and i dont know how to tell her she has it all wrong.

Answer 1

Screw these answers... it's God's way to get married and have children after. If she can't realize she needs to live for God rather than herself, she's doing a very bad sin. I hate to say it but you need to get her on the right track, maybe it's your place for God to have you help her. If she can get married and admit to God her sins, and ask for forgiveness and truly mean it, she'll be on a good track of life.

Talk to her... TELL her... she may be very angry with you, but she will be thinking about it afterwords.

With God's way you shouldn't even be having sex before marriage. This would make you not pregnant if you are not married to the people who commented about unexpected pregnancy w/ your boytoys before me. You're on a road to hell and need to realize this. The only sex that is UNSINFUL is between a married man and woman... nothing else, even masturbation. Read your bible ladies.

Hope this might help a little anyways.

Answer 2

Well I've been with my common-law husband for 9 1/2 years and we have a 6 year old and a 9 month old. An official marriage has crossed my mind but what's the difference? A piece of paper? My in-laws even got married when my husband was 17. I've seen and heard of too many people getting married too fast then soon after divorcing. If your sister is happy then be happy for her.

Answer 3

I think you have the problem not her. Do you have any idea how bad the divorce rate is in this country? If every woman who got knocked up ran out and got married to the guy it would be 75% instead of the already horrifying 50%. I am pregnant and not married and extremely happy. So maybe thats how you would do it but unplanned pregnancy happens and i am not about to put my child through a divorce if I don't have to.

Answer 4

A woman doesn't need her relationship validated by a religion and or a government in order to have children. As long as she is with the man she loves and she's happy and they have a stable relationship, she can get married when she wants if she wants. You don't need to force your morals upon her. Two of my sisters had children out of wedlock, and they're both very happy.

Given 50% of marriages end in divorce, I can't see how marrying would make her life any more stable. If she wants to wait, then all the more power to her. As long as she and the father are providing a stable home environment for the children and have a good relationship, they're fine as they are.

Answer 5

Your mom is one hundred% proper. Your sister demands to reuse child stuff and no longer assume humans to maintain giving her new matters after having a brand new child. Give her diapers and a couple of elementary units however no fundamental units, if she already has the equal factor that she will be able to reuse. It doesnt subject if she doesnt like her historic child matters, she has to reuse it. Having a child isn't approximately getting new matters. It isn't your situation to repair this. Your mother has her opinion and your sister has hers. Invite plenty of humans and your sister must NOT have registered for this child. Your sister must make a record of elementary units she demands/ could like and you'll inform the invited humans what she could like. Maybe she is going to get it, probably she wont. She must be glad about something items she will get. Dont ship out the registry to humans, it's impolite for a moment baby to assume such a lot.

Answer 6

there are alot of women who have babies before there married I've been with the same man for 11 years and I'm not married who has the right to judge and look down on people because of the choices they make so shes not married shes your sister be supportive instead of shameful.

Answer 7

What would be the point in telling her she's wrong? The first kid is here already and the second one's coming. It's not like you can change that fact. Assuming she's an adult it's her choice to live her life as she sees fit.

Answer 8

Wrong to whom? you? to bad its not your life to live. She has every right to do things as she wants. I'm pregnant to, with my boyfriends child and we aren't even talking about marrige so we must be sinning to huh? Get off your high horse and just be happy for her, like a real sister should.

Answer 9

You cannot tell her anything. YOu just need to make sure you do not make the same mistakes. You seem to have a good head on your shoulders...Unfortunately your sister seems like she not only wants to ruin her life but those of the children she creates.
You are responsible for you, not your sister, and not her children.

Answer 10

If she is an adult, this is none of your business. Having children is a decision made between two adults involved in the relationship to create them. Since you weren't involved in it, I am sure your OPINION isn't welcome. Make your own choices for yourself. After all, it was God's decision to give us free will. It was Satan who wanted to take it away. You have no place forcing your opinions down her throat. I am sure she has heard from people who don't agree with it. I am sure she really is not concerned with what they think. You will be telling her nothing new, and if you would like to be the aunt to these children and be a part of their lives, I suggest you stay out of things that aren't your concern.