2006-08-07 12:04:52 · 22 answers · asked by youngbp2006 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Shut up and take some anger management classes.
2006-08-07 12:07:48 · answer #1 · answered by King 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to step up. if he is a man, u are a woman. u both demand respect FROM EACHOTHER. if he is not going to respect u as a wife and a lover and a friend and a human being, u don't have to listen to him anymore. how can u listen to someone u don't trust? he is supposed to protect u, not hurt you. talk to him, communicate with him; u need to set boundaries on what u want to accomplish in the marriage. do u feel that u do all u can to be a good wife? tell him that, and tell him what u expect from him as a husband. if he listens and validates ur opinion, u can work it out. if he doesn't respect u, thinks of u as his property, no brain, then it's not going to work. relationships are two way; u both contribute different things to the relationship in order to make them work, and at the base foundation is Love and Trust and Respect. if any of these things are shaken, u are in for an unhealthy relationship. nip it in the bud now, or u will be unhappy. hopefully he is willing to work just as hard as u are to make the Marriage work! u took vows for that! marriage means more work, not less..but work that u Want to do, because it will make ur relaitonship strong and grow together!
2006-08-07 12:10:02 · answer #2 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have no advice unless I got the two of them together. I do not advise the ignorant, it is like giving life hints to a wall. I did not place those people in that situation, and I do not feel sorry for them. Live with your choices, or get wise about choosing.
2006-08-07 12:12:13 · answer #3 · answered by Joseph L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit yelling unless she did something really bad like cheat. Sometimes a good yell in a situation like that clears the air but other than that it is unacceptable.
2006-08-07 12:08:55 · answer #4 · answered by zara01 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Divorce...atleast bring up the idea, my husband used to yell at me all the time he acted like he was my father. i just told him i couldn't put up with it any more, and that i was going to divorce him, the next day it was like talking to a whole new man. Amazing, i still have the divorce papers just incase he decides to go back to his old ways!!!
2006-08-07 12:10:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell my husband to get some anger managment classes and a good divorce lawyer. Verbal abuse is still abuse.
2006-08-07 12:09:25 · answer #6 · answered by taz4x4512 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make them apologize and realize they are yelling and treat you poorly. Consider couples counseling and or divorce if you cant stand it.
2006-08-07 13:29:23 · answer #7 · answered by Educated 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're going to stay, at least be civil. If you're not going to be civil, leave and let her find somebody who won't squawk at her like some snotty delinquent..
Shouting at women is for pansy boys.
2006-08-07 12:37:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love your spouse, then treat him/her in a good manner.
There are always conflicts in relationships, but domestic violence never solve problems and cause anger/sadness.
2006-08-07 12:09:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better start treating her better or one day she might not be there to yell at.
2006-08-07 12:09:18 · answer #10 · answered by Sabina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋