why is it that people such as myself can try to have a baby and when we do get pregnant it ends up in miscarriage or something, when any street whore crackhead can pop them out one after another and just throw them in the garbage so those of us who are not as lucky can read about it in the newspapers????
It's not fair. I believe in God and all but how can he be so cruel as to give such a gift to those who will abuse it or kill it instead of someone who will nurture it and care for it the way it deserves?
2006-08-07 11:25:15 · 7 answers · asked by real_sweetheart_76 5 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
I know exactly how you feel. I had 3 miscarriages before finally having my son and we almost lost him at birth due to him being almost 3 months early. It seemed like after each miscarriage there would be a story on the news about some dumb girl dumping their baby in the trash. It is very frustrating and I wanted to choke the people that did that.
2006-08-07 11:48:41 · answer #1 · answered by Ryan's mom 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I really feel for you, I wonder the exact same thing, but if God only gave children to those He deemed worthy, would anyone get them, for none of us are perfect? I am so sorry to hear of your heartache, and I hope that things work out for you soon. I know that it seems unfair, but if you're meant to be a mom, keep trying. I know some one who has had more miscarriages than I can count, but she now has two little girls. Be patient, and it will happen.
My sincere best wishes for the future.
2006-08-07 19:19:52 · answer #2 · answered by ♥Pamela♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are many reasons a person cannot get pregnant or remain pregnant. Many young people can get pregnant because they are more fertle. You can always adopt or try some of the other expensive ways to consieve. You have to find the right answer for you and not judge other people.
2006-08-07 19:06:10 · answer #3 · answered by Lady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Real ~
You're in the same boat I am in. Ive had 4 miscarriages and wonder why it is 16 year olds and crack whores can have children and then get them taken away. Keep your faith, God will give us children....I know he will :) God Bless!
2006-08-07 18:46:19 · answer #4 · answered by It's a secret! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HI! I FELT THE SAME WAY AS YOUR FEELING. I COULD NEVER GET PREGNANT AND WHEN I DID I HAD A MISSCARRAIGE, THEN I DELEVERED STILLBORN TWIN BOYS WHEN I WAS 8 MONTHS PREGNANT. I WANTED TO GIVE UP BUT I DIDN'T. I FINALLY GOT PREGNANT AND NOW I HAVE AN 19 MONTH OLD DAUGHTER. DON'T GIVE UP!!! I KNOW IT'S HARD BUT IT WILL HAPPEN. GOOD LUCK AND RELAX!!!
2006-08-07 18:33:42 · answer #5 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wonder the exact same thing. Why, why does it happen. Maybe it's a sign from God you are to adopt one of those babies? You never know.
2006-08-07 18:30:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just have faith. If you dwell on all the stuff that doesn't make since you will drive yourself crazy. Just remember that god does have a plan.
2006-08-07 18:33:12 · answer #7 · answered by Melanie T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋