I ask the question yesterday did my girlfriend cheat on me and I
got alot of great feedback thanks!!Today is another day and here is another question.About an hour ago me my girlfriend and her four year old son went to a nearby mall.He needed to go to the
restroom.So on our way he starts to tell me about how my girlfriend met this guy at that particular mall one day and the different things the three of them did.What stores they went in,
the things they ate ect,.but when I asked my girlfriend about it
she said that her son was lying and that he had never been inside
that mall before.But wait heres the thing,I did'nt know were the restrooms were and he took me straight to them,he remembered
that the guy bought him something from a store a certian type of candy,not only did he take me to the store,he went over an picked
it up he even remembered the guys name.Yesterday I got about
30 e-mails telling me to leave my girlfriend.So today I ask this question is he telling the truth?
2006-08-07 11:18:29 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
yes he his telling you the truth
2006-08-07 11:22:19 · answer #1 · answered by Neil G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to the 4 year old... especially if he includes that much detail! I am a mom of 3 children... 3, 4 & 5 years old. They do not lie. Children at that age see adults as authoritative... they are not yet disrespectful and will always tell the truth for fear of getting in trouble.
Your girlfriend should be ashamed of herself saying that her son is lying. Not only is SHE being dishonest to you (and probably cheating), she is making her son feel he did something wrong for telling the truth. She sounds like a selfish, immature person.
I recommend you leave her. However, when you discuss the matter with her, be sure her son isn't listening. He will think he did something wrong, and was the cause of you two to breaking up.
2006-08-07 18:30:30 · answer #2 · answered by .·:*RENE*:·. 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For a 4 year old to say something like that then he HAS seen it. Don't get me wrong kids lie and make up stories but if he could show you where the restroom was come on he has been there before. Look at it this way why would this child lie to you? If the two of you have always had a good relationship and been close why would he want to hurt you. I think in your heart yu know the answer you are just wanting to hold on to hope.
2006-08-07 18:24:03 · answer #3 · answered by Martha S 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you know your answer. Four year olds can sure make up some good stories, but this one seems to have way to much detail. That sounds more like something a 10 year old could make up, but a 4 year old? I don't think so. I didn't catch yesterdays question. But if you are having that much doubt, get out now. Kids that age get really attached, especially a boy to a man who takes him places and treats him right. It's not fair to him for you to stay if you don't think this is going to work out. And I wouldn't bet anything on it working out. Sounds like you wouldn't either. Maybe you should talk to her and see if you can get the truth out of her. I'm not saying she is. but some people are such liars that they can't tell the truth if their life depends on it. Good luck to you.
2006-08-07 18:31:08 · answer #4 · answered by Vicm0322 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It would certainly make me think twice about her honesty. It sounds as if she is just playing games, and doesn't want to be with you, but doesn't want to be without you either. One of you needs to have the respect for the other, and themselves as well, and move on. You've already confronted her, and she's told you "her" version of the truth. Why would the child lie? He is at an age unaware of much other than candy and cartoons. Thank goodness that you are not married, and that it isn't YOUR child that was witness to that. Imagine how you would feel if all THAT was invested. Be lucky you found out now, and find the inner strength to move on.
2006-08-07 18:27:04 · answer #5 · answered by Michael 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The child is telling the truth. Four year olds can make up things, but with the detail he provided, he is not making this up. Not only is his mother a cheater, she's a scumbag for calling her child a liar and putting him in this position. This is a woman with whom you should have no relationship, friends or otherwise. Good luck in finding an honest, decent woman who will respect you. Take care.
2006-08-07 18:24:15 · answer #6 · answered by stseukn 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to get out of there so fast people will think your tail's on fire. no 4 year old could make up a lie about a store, but if you need a 4 year old to tell you that your girlfriend is cheating then you have problems other than a cheating girlfriend. maybe you two can work it out but you need time away for awhile. good luck
2006-08-07 18:26:42 · answer #7 · answered by mama bear 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'd believe him. And with the details he was able to fill in and provide, I think there's no way he's lying. Leave your girlfriend if you want. It's up to you. But with what you know, it seems like a pretty good idea.
2006-08-07 18:25:45 · answer #8 · answered by Alecto 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most likely, he's telling you the truth. 4 year olds make up stories (I hate to say "lie") when they have a vivid imagination, but not with that much detail about ordinary things.
2006-08-07 18:27:30 · answer #9 · answered by Avid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chances are he is telling you the truth. Most 4 year old's can't carry a story line to that extent.
2006-08-07 18:24:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
sorry buddy mommy is the one not telling the truth the poor little boy dont even know he said anything wrong he must really like and and just wanted to share a happy day he had with you
2006-08-07 18:32:08 · answer #11 · answered by burnt bob 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋