his name is James F Wright he is my estranged husband and i need to get in touch with him for his kids...the last i knew where he was he was in Preston, Idaho. He has blond hair, blue eyes, and is 6'2" and slim he is 33. this is really important. he also goes to Nevada sometimes he drives a 1986 Ford F250 diesel. Please only sincere replies only ... I have tried contacting him in all the ways i have and it doesnt work.
2006-08-07 11:18:27 · 8 answers · asked by Angel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
with my limited finances i cannot hire a private detective any other suggestions?
He also is not listed anywhere in any directories.
2006-08-07 15:26:53 · update #1
i am trying to find him so i can get divorced from him and get him to terminate his rights on the kids, so i can move on and have some sort of closure.
2006-08-10 10:47:59 · update #2
no that is not my ex-husband on
http://www.jamesfwright.com/
2006-08-11 15:49:03 · update #3
There are many, many, many women in your position.
1. I doubt he has a phone...he's busy hiding.
2. Contact you local welfare office...you might be eligible for the food bank or maybe a few bucks to help you out. Don't be too proud...you have to feed the kids.
3. There is a number some area have through United Way. Look up "First Call" or ask the operator if there is a listing in your area. They help people who haven't a clue as to what to do.
4. If he's not working under the table (which is what these guys do) he has to provide a Social Secuity number. Have that ready for the Welfare Office. I don't know if anyone but the IRS can help in that area (and won't) but worth a try.
5. If Welfare gives you anything...then he'll owe them (State) the money and they have way we know little of . Try it.
6. Tracking him down is expensive and frustrating. I know women who have had to do that and the Welfare Office is full of them.
7. Contact the Registry of Motor Vehicles in Idaho and Nevada
and speak to a supervisor who is not tied up to the long lines at the front desk as has a moment to talk to you.
8. Keep going forward with your life anyway...whether you catch this bum or not. You can file for divorce anyway...ask the Welfare Office about references and what not.
Good Luck...
2006-08-13 15:17:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have been reported. I hope this is a joke for your kid's sake, but if not then you need to move on and get over it. Time to grow up and take some responsibility.
2006-08-11 01:32:05 · answer #2 · answered by Dickbiggenstein 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your story sounds fishy. You can get a divorce without him, by claiming desertion. Sounds like you want more. Maybe he is hidding from you. If you have children support enforcement will deal with him. Let him go. MOVE ON and find your happy place
2006-08-13 11:20:19 · answer #3 · answered by kitty cat 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dead beat Dads...eh, I can truly understand you wanting to loacte him,. but personally, he;s a loser and you will be better of not knowing where he is and when the kids get older if they want to hunt down a loser so be it because he still is their father, but few ever do.
2006-08-13 13:12:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you hire a private detective before you grab at even more straws.
2006-08-07 11:23:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
stuff him he aint worth you contacting ... beleive me your children or child would not appreciate having an evil vindictive s.o.b. for a father. he doesnt deserve the love of a child after what he did.
Find someone new and that really loves and cares for you .... you deserve it and so do your kid. kids.
2006-08-10 09:14:52 · answer #6 · answered by emi.cons 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try white pages in www.superpages.com or www.anywho.com
2006-08-07 11:26:03 · answer #7 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this him?
http://www.jamesfwright.com/
2006-08-11 15:44:45 · answer #8 · answered by r0bErT4u 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋