guys what would you do if you were having and the broke and you got your gurl pregnant???

Question

sorry the thing didnt type....if you were having $ex and the condum broke

ok people for the ones that think i did this i didnt do it im jus askin a question.....you guys take questions to seriously

alright i jus said that i didnt have $ex and the gurl isnt pregnant im jus asking you what would you do i just wanna see how some of you guys are see who is a man and who isnt a man if this ever happened to me i would get a better job make more money have the kid before i did all this i would tell my gurl the condum broke and sit down and talk abt it and let her decide what she thinks is right

Answer 1

what??

Answer 2

I think your quesiton is a great question. Only because many many people deal with that same situation. They didnt intend to get someone pregnant...but it happens. Some advice that I have is that if this happens to YOU or ANYONE.....When you find out she's pregnant. Calm down...think things threw. Its not all that bad. Sure its going to be hard and a lot of work, but in the end it will pay off. You'll have someone that you can say is yours! You made that! And Just think that some day....your going to be someone's biggest hero! You will get to help form someone into a great person! Even if you arent WITH the girl...not dating or anything...at least then you'll have a child that is going to love you no matter what. Even when other people dont....your child will always be there for you like you are for them. So its a great experience. Of course, dont try for it....do it when ready. Yet, if an accident happens....Embrace it...Enjoy it! Hope that helps you a little.

Answer 3

If i was a guy and didnt have sex with her, and she is pregnant, then i would have her explain why she got pregnant, and who is the real father? Then i would have a serious talk with her and explain the cheating is not the answer, and if you want to pursue a relationship then be man enough to tell her that this is not going to happen again, and if it does then you will drop her like a bad habit. If you did have sex with her and you are the father, then talk to her about her options. ABORTION IS NOT ALWAYS THE ANSWER! If she does not want the baby and you dont either, then there are plenty of adoption services out there that can provide a good, clean and loving home for the baby. If you both choose to raise the baby, then you need to work out a schedule for dr appts, and a way to save money for diapers, wipes, clothes, bottles, ect. if that is the route you take i wish you major luck and find a real good babysitter before the baby is born. take care

Answer 4

If you have honor, there is only one answer...step up! If the girl decides to have the child, then you have to share the responsibilities. After all a new child is coming into the world..he/she deserve a responsible father and mother.

I am not advocating that you must get married, but you cannot ignore the situation and leave the issue to her.

The mistake belong to the both of you. Having sex is an adult responsibility. You must become an adult and pay the price for playing an adult game.

Answer 5

tell your girlfriend the condom broke during sex,she deserves to know....And if she is pregnant fromthis accident ,show your support, and be there for her..
she has to decide to have this child or have an abortion. If she decides to have this child, there is not a thing you can dobut help with the childs expenses til it reaches 18 years of age( if you refuse too help, she will go to court and sue you for child support past ,present, and future...so face up to your responsibility and remember , she carries this child for 9 grueling, uncomfortable months( your lucky, you don't..)
Abortion is a cheaper route but she has to want to get rid of the child so.....
tell her that the condom brokr know so she can start making a decision on what she wants todo..and have a pregnancy test as soonn as she is able..Good-luck to you both

Answer 6

It's probably best you let her know that you cannot support her and the baby.

If you can't control the glove in bed, your not going to be able to help, assist, or much even raise a child.

You will just hold her up. You will be the one that is responsible for putting a stop to her future plans. You may run, but she doesnt' have a choice.

SHOTGUN WEDDING!!!

Answer 7

Man up and handle ya business....being a father to a soon to be four year old I know from experience it's not going to be easy but You have to Man Up and realize that you made that decision to have sex so now make the decision to man up and take care of your responsibilities...there are alot of resources out there to help you and your girl get through this and i'm extending a hand to help you through this situation becasue I know what you're getting ready to go through.

DW

Answer 8

I think you are a pretty mature man to be able to deal with it instead of acting like nothing happened and if the girl came up pregnant, denying it as yours! Good Job! There is not enough men out there that are like you.

Answer 9

First of all you would need to be supportive and get yourselves checked out. You would have to consider not only pregnancy but sexual transmitted disease also. With the pregnancy remember that it is her body. The decision of what to do belongs to both of you. In this matter the best thing you can do is support what ever decision she makes. Also, remember that this an emotional time for the both of you.

Answer 10

be the father of your child and raise the child. dont run, that is what gives all men a bad reputation. if you run and later on down the road want a child with the one you marry, it will hit home hard to know that you have a child out there somewhere who doesnt know who you are. it makes you more of a man to hold your child and raise that child than it does by drinking and partying with friends and running off. she cant run off, is that fair? no its not. my man didnt run off, infact we got married and he took care of me when i got pregnant, and in my eyes hes the biggest man in my life for raising his child and taking care of his family.
get a good job because children are a little pricey. if you have to, go get on WIC (women, infants, children) program. they will give you milk and stuff while your girl is pregnant and if she decides not to nurse, then they will provide formula. dont be embarassed to receive help. thats what its there for. and name brands are not always the best. i use off brands for diapers, and it saves money.
good luck and i wish the best for you.

Answer 11

Yeah right, You DIDN`T and She IS`NT!!
Anyway if you are having sex, then you should be a man and stand by your girl weather you decide to keep it or not. Getting pregnant is one consequence of having sex and if you (both of you) could do the deed, then you should be able to live with the consequence.