She's getting a massage and paying the guy. Is that considered cheating? :)
2006-08-07 11:15:03 · 56 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
NOpe its a profession to help ease tense muscles...but you know what havin sex is like the same thing so should prostitution be wrong?
2006-08-07 11:17:49 · answer #1 · answered by Martin2006 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
No, Not on the surface. What i would suggest is that without prior notice, you suddenly go with her the next time she needs a rub down. Go in the room with her because you want to see what a massage is. Watch him with no emotion on your face. There faces will give you all of the answers that you need. Ask the guy to suggest a woman who gives good massages. See the response from your wife. Trust your gut. By the way, youshould be glad she is paying. Other wise you would really be in for a rough ride.
2006-08-07 11:30:18 · answer #2 · answered by jeff shaffer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know what in the hel is going on here and your letting this ridliciouss nonense go on, and you got the nerve too sit there and think this is cheating what are ya onn share it with us do so!! you think this is cheating why dont you give wife a nice hot massage are your arms bustedd or what here?? in the nude what in the sam hell is wrong with you idiott?? get a life, you are so stupidd with another man running around bare-- nakedd and you ask us if its cheating, amazing, where your head is att!
2006-08-07 11:21:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! Would it be cheating if you got the massage from the man?? Didn't think so....
2006-08-07 11:17:33 · answer #4 · answered by SadToday22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if it has a "happy ending" -- if you're concerned, hang out with her while she gets a massage. It's probably totally innocent, though.
2006-08-07 11:17:38 · answer #5 · answered by ndtaya 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it is not cheating, but if you had qualms about it, you should have discussed them with her beforehand. Unless she has ever given you any reason to doubt her faithfulness, I'd relax. It is just a massage.
2006-08-07 11:20:20 · answer #6 · answered by connorsmom916 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, but if you're uncomfortable with it ask her to get massaged by a woman.
2006-08-07 11:17:44 · answer #7 · answered by wilkes1216 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relax dude- don't show any "harsh" I assume this a professional massuse ina professional setting. Nothing wrong with that.
Ask her how was it? You can have her teach you how to do it...
show interest- hey then you can get a massage too!
best!
2006-08-07 11:19:34 · answer #8 · answered by omnimog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends. confront her about the problem. is she always going to get the massage like everyday or just once a week or wassup??? go to the massage place on a suprise day that she goes. dont tell her your going, and just show up to see whats happening. if yu se her doing something you dont like with the man confront them on the spot, but if they arent foing nothing wrong, just the massage, just leave her alone cauze she aint cheating on yu. hope this helps.
2006-08-07 11:20:07 · answer #9 · answered by jcenathuganomics 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should be in there with them nude and getting it on. all 3 of u.
2006-08-07 11:18:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well no. but have her get her massages from a female if that makes you feel any better.
2006-08-07 11:17:40 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋