My future Mother-in-Law is absolutely the most crazy person I have ever met. She verbally attacks my fiance and is extremely phony. She acts friendly to your face and stabs you in the back the minute you aren't looking. My boyfriend just finished culinary arts school and she wants to take out a home equity loan out and open a restaurant and be partners. First of all, that is just dumb. If the business fails, then she loses her house. My fiance is trying so hard to cut the apron strings and she just keeps trying to hold on. Not to mention she hates me, and I've done nothing to her or her family. She wants to be supported financially, yet she treats people like garbage and claims she is a church woman cuz she reads the bible and goes to church. My fiance is starting to resent his mother and that is just sad. So with that said, any suggestions?
2006-08-07 10:45:52 · 4 answers · asked by Miranda Martini 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You might be able to defend yourself, but there's little you can do to defend him, other than pointing out the obvious behavior.
The best thing you could do is to take all of the bad characteristics you see in her, and don't do them. Contrast you, and what you have to offer, to what she is... Let him see the difference clearly. Guess who he'll reject, and who he'll cling to then?
Marriage is for a lifetime. Show him the difference between you and her and give it six months. She'll still be who she is, but it just won't matter to your marriage anymore.
2006-08-07 10:54:27 · answer #1 · answered by antirion 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best payback to your monster in law would be to make her little boy is freaking happy. It'll kill her.
2006-08-07 11:00:20 · answer #2 · answered by Simply Lovely 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep the distance is your best bet.
2006-08-07 10:52:11 · answer #3 · answered by Discovery 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all I can say is DITTO!!!
2006-08-07 10:56:10 · answer #4 · answered by Dia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋