2006-08-07 10:41:00 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No, It probably saves some marriages
2006-08-07 10:47:37 · answer #1 · answered by Yote' 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah, it isn't wrong. There are times when you would want to self-pleasure yourself because um, maybe you want to have that "feeling" right now.
For example, your spouse is at work and you're at home. You're all lonely and then your sexual drive begins. There is nothing wrong with self-pleasure, so go ahead =).
But it is wrong, if you don't think about your spouse when you're doing it. You better not think of other people or porn stars or whatever, lol.
2006-08-07 10:51:00 · answer #2 · answered by *a∙e∙r∙i∙t∙h* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. What is wrong is having sex with another person to relieve your sexual needs.
If you need to have sex and your partner isn't interested then the best thing for you to do is to take care of it yourself. Just don't flaunt it or do it in front of your partner. That is an insult and a claim that they can't fulfill your needs. Even if it is true it is a cruel thing to say, or show your partner.
So self-pleasuring yourself in private is better than the other option. Just make sure it is in private, unless you want to be cruel to your partner.
2006-08-07 10:50:20 · answer #3 · answered by Dan S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its more then fine with me, as a matter of fact it turns me on for my husband to jack off.i watch and then take over at the very end. and the truth is no woman can make a man feel better then he can make him self feel. by the way we have been married 15 years.
2006-08-07 12:22:50 · answer #4 · answered by BLOODHOUND 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all. Go ahead and play video games or online poker. Nothing wrong with that stuff.
2006-08-07 10:45:35 · answer #5 · answered by Sausage Fingers™ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No Everyone does it single, married , male and female.
2006-08-07 10:46:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, perhaps you should make it part of foreplay, some people get turned on watching someone masturbating.
2006-08-07 10:49:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its ok especially if one has a greater sex drive than the other
2006-08-07 10:46:29 · answer #8 · answered by maria 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ABSOLUTELY......not. It does save marriages and curb arguments. Be respectful of your partner and do your thang, do your thang, do it.
2006-08-07 11:14:29 · answer #9 · answered by ?girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as you spouse is ok with it. I don't see why not.
2006-08-07 10:50:28 · answer #10 · answered by goldenrose3497 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋