2006-08-07 10:14:01 · 10 answers · asked by paleface61773 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
it is a mutual relationship. you need to benefit off each other. one of you should not be doing all the work. always remember that they love you and you love them. establish a good way to fight so that you don't hurt each other. and never walk away or sleep in different beds. always tell the spouse that you love them before you go to bed. nothing ever gets solved unless you do it face to face.
2006-08-07 13:58:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
I know this sounds cliched but you need to talk things through as honestly, rationally and openly as possible. If you truly love each other, then you must realise that relationships take good hard working at, remaining aware and open minded to each others needs and desires. It gets overwhelming sometimes because in a relationship you need to consider not only your own but your spouses feelings, thoughts and views. Find a way to compromise the difficult situation at hand. Always remember that at the end of the day matters of the heart are definitely worth fighting for.
2006-08-07 10:28:55 · answer #2 · answered by Dr_Seamus 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are two words that I want you to think about, responsibility and respect. As a woman you are responsible for the tempo and depth of the relationship. One of the ways that you do this is by showing respect for your man and his wants and needs. By doing this you will show him by your actions what he should be doing for you. Every women gets the romance that she sees for herself - what her vision is.
Last, when you get angry in a heated discussion it is by definition your inability to handle a situation. Slow down and learn what to do to improve communication between the two of you.
If all of this fails then you should understand that you need to calmly express that the two of you have made an error and that you are not happy. If there are no soothing answers that come out of that conversation.....It is time to think about PLAN 2.
2006-08-07 10:29:18 · answer #3 · answered by jeff shaffer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say Uh Huh ! and know it will be taken care of by you or spouse.... It's all about a 110% per person in a relationship of Marrage.
2006-08-07 10:19:25 · answer #4 · answered by ventrest 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, we never ignore the fact that though we are one through our relationship, that we're still two separate people.
So, when we can't agree, we both agree that arguments are silly distractments from the now.
2006-08-08 00:45:34 · answer #5 · answered by Bianca 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always remember that they love you and you love them. Establish a good way to fight so that you don't hurt each other. And never walk away or sleep in different beds. Nothing ever gets solved unless you do it face to face.
2006-08-07 10:18:33 · answer #6 · answered by rkrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never let it get physical. Just walk away and stew for a minute. cool off and always be the first one to apologize and make peace. Actually, both of you should make a pact to always be the first to apologize, that way, you will be okay.
2006-08-07 11:20:52 · answer #7 · answered by ?girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You take it day by day - you realize that nobody is perfect - you make up before you go to sleep - you forgive them for little things...you don't hold grudges - you accept them totally, flaws & all.
Marriage is NOT easy - it takes work, on BOTH parts...
Good luck
2006-08-07 10:18:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just tell him that things would have been fine if he had listened to me in the first place and done it my way!
2006-08-07 10:21:51 · answer #9 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to them and be open dont keep anything from them... and be understanding... just relize that everone makes mistakes
2006-08-07 10:21:53 · answer #10 · answered by barrelracingal86 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋