how do i tell my my band teacher his going to be a dad?

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Answer 2

Can I ask you a question.... Now why would you be so dumb to tell your freinds that you are pregnant?? Did you not think that they would find out you were lieing? And not to mention, YOUR BAND TEACHER!!!! Now think what the police and your principal are going to do next. They are going to do this HUGE investigation. Chances are your teacher is going to be suspended while they conduct the investigation. His reputation is going to be distroyed during all of this. Everyone at your school is going to be interviewed. If you go back on your word, it won't make any difference, you already opened a can of worms. And hey at the end of all this YOU are going to be the joke of the town!! Did your mommy ever read "The Girl Who Cried Wolf"?

Answer 3

I answered your other question so I will take a shot at this one as well. You need to tell him the truth. It is his child and he needs to know about it.

You can weasel out or lie about it, but he needs to know the truth, and he needs to know it NOW. The best way to tell him is to go to him in private and speak to him face-to-face. You have to rip the bandage off all at once and confront him. Don’t make it an accusation make it a statement. “I’m pregnant, and I haven’t had sex with anyone else, so you have to be the father.” Of course if you say this it had better be true. DNA tests can prove that it is not his child, and such tests can be conducted while the baby is still in the womb.

You next thing to say is “What do we do now? I have told my friends so it isn’t a secret anymore.” This is going to devastate him. He is the adult and you should listen to what he has to say. “What do we tell the school, is this going to cost you your job?” Like I said, this is going to devastate him and possibly ruin his carrier.

He is probably going to suggest that you get an abortion, and I would recommend it as well. If you can’t get an abortion then look at what this baby will do to your life. You need to answer these questions: How are you going to care for this child? How are you going to continue to go to school when you are starting to show that you are pregnant? The school will probably want you to stop coming there, because you are setting a bad example. After the baby is born how do you plan on caring for it? Young babies have to be fed every 4-5 hours, and that means at night too. You can’t take your baby to school, and if you don’t finish high school then you will never get a job better than a fast food job. Will the father help, can he help? If the school administration finds out about your pregnancy then your Band Teacher will get fired. He also won’t be able to find another job in the district; maybe he will never find a teaching job again. He will have to move, are you ready to leave your friends and go with him? What if he doesn’t want you? A child is a great responsibility and he may not be ready for it. In fact if he is having sex with teenagers then that’s proof that he is not ready to have a family. Teachers don’t get paid much so a child will be a great burden on him, don’t be surprised if all he wants to do is run. I seriously doubt that he will want to marry you, or even claim the child, so if you carry it to term then it is going to be YOUR responsibility. Are you ready to face that? Where is the baby going to live? It is alright to keep it in your bedroom for the first year or so, but after that the child needs its own room. What about your parents, they love you, but will they love your child. This is going to drastically change their lives too. They may not want you to marry, and you might not get him to want to marry you, so where will you live? Children have to eat, and be clothed. They will grow out of their clothing at least once a year for the first few years, and their appetite will only grow as they grow.

Abortion is murder; there is no other way to think of it. But, it is legal for a reason. The worst form of child abuse is to raise an unwanted child. In a case like this I think abortion is the best choice. It will be better for you, for the father, and for the child. I know it sounds cruel, but I believe in mercy killings, and in this case an abortion will be a mercy. Sure you can carry the child to term, but it will be a part of you for 9 months. Giving up that child will be the hardest thing you will ever do, and no matter what your decision is you will hate yourself for it.

Answer 4

Yea... You're a whore and a liar. I can tell you're one of those pathetic little girls that lie about being pregnant and actually convince themselves that they are.... Then when you go take the test, you'll somehow be upset that it is negative.. BUT You'll probably tell your friends it was a mascarriage seeing as you lead on that you were "pregnant". Save yourself the embarassment (too late)... and give up. Get some attention the right way, like good grades and **** like that. No one likes a whore.

Answer 5

Well from all your other questions you seem to be a compulsive liar. So first of all, lay off your band teacher. I'm sure he's happily married. Second, GROW UP!

Answer 6

You just asked "how do I tell my friends that I lied about being pregnant b, my band teacher"! Get your story straight so we can help you.

Answer 7

Are you saying that your band teacher is the father of your unborn child? If so, you wont have to tell him, the police will.

Answer 8

You need to seriously go and get some mental help. Stay away from the school couselor though. You are crying out for help and please don't get an innocent person (band teacher) involved with your mental illness.

Answer 9

How about having the cops tell him when they slap on the cuffs to take him down for statutory rape if u really are.

If you're lying like the others say (and your other questions) you will be the one to go to jail.

What are u thinking trying to ruin the reputation of a working individual trying to earn a living for his family!!!!!
You ought to be ashamed of yourself!!!!

Answer 10

The better questions might be how do I get intouch with planned parenthood and why oh why did I ever go to band camp?