it depends on the individual .... personally, to me, it's a matter of discipline and on how much you really love the person ... you can't even think of being with anybody else but him/her . in terms of human behaviour, cheating happens because a relationship has gone sour or there is no more fun to it .... being in a different avenue makes things a lot more exciting .... think about it, ask yourself why ....and try even harder to make your relationship work.
2006-08-07 10:09:05
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answered by Josie V 2
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I think answerer two got the signals crossed on what type of cheating.
I can't help but fully agree with the other two participants. And yes by all means do stay the person you are. It's a definite plus you never have done such a thing even by mistake.
You hear people say, the world is not a perfect place, people are not perfect?
That's called ... diplomacy ... I saw it in a human resources poster once:
" Diplomacy is the art of telling someone to go to hell; and having them actually looking forward to the trip. "
In other words, not only isn't it a perfect world, though it could be, it is a wildly lawless world with only a semblance of decency right now.
Don't change.
Don't be compelled or controlled by the actions of others to make you something other than that which you know you should be.
THAT .... would be a loss to all of US.
2006-08-07 17:16:06
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answered by vanamont7 7
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the balance in life is not that obvious.
people cheat because they feel the need of proving themselves that they are still attractive, or to feel the excitment of touching somebody new, or for ensuring themselves that they are still free..It depends on one's perception over a relationship. u just have to be "en garde" (keep your reason close) . it's safer
2006-08-07 17:32:14
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answered by grain_of_folly 1
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You mean~ "Why do people cheat"? People cheat because they have no self esteem, it has nothing to do with you. People are going to say that's not true, but it is...read all about it on-line while your on here.
2006-08-07 17:09:30
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answered by DesertPlains 4
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first they do not know what comes around goes around , second they are weak and stupid , and you stay thedecent person you are,
2006-08-07 17:06:21
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answered by FLOSSIE 2
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