2006-08-07 09:42:54 · 26 answers · asked by 12 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I wouldn't see why not. If your EX is married, she should be too involved in her own relationship to worry about your's or her friend's. If she is worried about it, then she may want to rethink her own commitment. It may make for a few odd moments if she and her friend decide to hang out and you go as well, but those situations are usually easy to avoid.
2006-08-07 09:52:43 · answer #1 · answered by Jim M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is really up to you and your new gf what the two of you get up to. Doesn't make her trashy or anything of the sort. Particularly if the relationship between you and the other girl is over.
I'd be very concerned if your ex objected to you having a relationship with her best-friend, due to the fact that she is getting married. She is after all in love with another man.
The only problem I foresee depends whether you and your ex parted on good terms. She may not want to see you again, and that would mean a separation from your new gf when ever she visited her friend.
Why are you asking other people though - if you love her you would date her regardless - wouldn't you?
Love be with you
2006-08-07 11:35:09 · answer #2 · answered by Dragon Master 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure. In fact most friends are best friends are because they are alike. That's the easiest person to have extra martial affairs with but since you're divorced. Who cares? But the girlfriend and the x should not compare notes. Takes all the fun out of discovery and causes envy because she and you may make a team and the x and you did not evidently. go for it.
2006-08-07 09:48:29 · answer #3 · answered by nanbeloved 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it. Your ex is an ex for a reason. You owe her nothing. Any issues will be between her and her best friend... if they have a "code" (which I always thought was stupid), then it will be up to the best friend to decide whether or not she wants to break it. You are blame free, regardless.
2006-08-07 09:47:32 · answer #4 · answered by barelyliterate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, no ties there. There may be some issues between you ex and her best friend (possible drama), but no, there shouldn't be any issues with you sleeping, dating or even marrying her.
2006-08-07 09:48:37 · answer #5 · answered by -J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I slept with a friend of my ex-boyfriend, at the ex's wedding reception. He was the best man for my ex. He was into his new wife and I don't think he would have cared even if he knew about it.
2006-08-07 09:52:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not if all you are trying to do is get even with the ex girlfriend. You will be hurting her friend if you don't have pure intentions. Is that the kind of person you are?
2006-08-07 09:50:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your not worried about outside of marriage sex, which in todays day and age you should be then her best friend is a beeter shot than some hussy you just met over a bowl of mush. sex for sex sakes is a bad idea but sex as a way of establishing the idea that you are over her and then throw in a little grudge thing could be good for your ego.
2006-08-07 09:49:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is up to you. Most people lose a lot of friends after they get married anyway.
2006-08-07 09:47:08 · answer #9 · answered by Busy Lady 2010 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not. She's married right. So she's out of the game. I say go for it.
2006-08-07 09:45:55 · answer #10 · answered by laneybugbaby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋