My boyfriend seems to be planning a lot of his free time with his friends.. especially with one of his best friends? I wouldn't mind it but when I ask him to take a day off to spend more time with me or to go on holidays, he seems to always tell me that it's difficult but he would go for 2 weeks away with his friend and he takes a day off to spend a weekend away with his friend? I feel a little sad about it?
2006-08-07 09:23:42 · 14 answers · asked by violet b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
just talk to him see what he says if he seems like he is making up execuses then maybe you should tell him that you don't appreciate it.
2006-08-07 09:27:27 · answer #1 · answered by girl in love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he spend any time with you? If he doesn't then I'd be pissed too, but if you see him during the week then forget about it, all men need there space and time with the boys. Believe your better off. I'd have a heart attack if I had to deal with my husband everyday. He drives me nuts, so a couple times a week he'll go out with the boys, and I'll go out with the girls occasionally. It's better in the long run!
2006-08-07 16:28:55 · answer #2 · answered by lillady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously right now in his life spending time with his friends is top priority. Now its up for you to decide if you want to make the best of this situation by spending more time with your friends, or if you can't handle it then get out and find a guy who will devote more of his time to you.
2006-08-07 16:27:30 · answer #3 · answered by tustudent 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may have the wrong guy, are you high maintenance or the other. Him taking off and being with friend sounds sort of lame, unless it is something that he has been planning. If they are just hanging out, then you might have a bi on your hands. Good luck.
2006-08-07 16:31:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you know the saying your not suppose to let a relationship come before a friendship. Would you put him in front of your bestfriend ? But you could mention it. Not in a jealous way in a I miss you type of way see the outcome.
2006-08-07 16:28:55 · answer #5 · answered by I love Jround 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend wants quality time with his friends and obviously isn't wanting to get very serious about spending his time with you. Maybe he isn't ready to give a girl most of his time yet. That's his choice.
2006-08-07 16:29:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The way I see it there are two possibilities, Either you ask him to take time off when it really was inconvenient, or your relationship is going south as they say.
2006-08-07 16:35:01 · answer #7 · answered by smoke 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lots of guys are like that. You could use that alone time with your friends and have some fun. As long as you sit their and wait he will keep doing it.
2006-08-07 16:27:45 · answer #8 · answered by nastaany1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see its not that he doesnt want to spent time with u but male bonding is a very strong thing. they do rough things and talk s h it that they feel they cannot with women. so dont feel its beacuse of u its just him taking his time to reliieve stress and do some male bonding. its a phase
2006-08-07 16:29:28 · answer #9 · answered by in ur face 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
23 hours ago you mentioned you had a wonderful weekend with him. You are an attention junkie, everything 'bout you.
2006-08-07 16:30:29 · answer #10 · answered by ricosuarve 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SOME GUYS JUST NEED THERE SPACE.THAT'S THE WAY TO KEEP THEM HAPPY.BE O.K. WITH IT. AND DO YOUR OWN THING. THEN TRY TO PLANE TOGETHER SOMETHING TO DO.BUT, GIVE IT TO HIM OR HE WILL JUST TAKE IT. O.K.?????
EDIT: THE OTHER PERSON IS RIGHT. YOU HAD A BEAUTIFUL WEEKEND. DAMN GIRL ARE YOU CONFUSED??????? GUYS DO NEED THERE SPACE THOUGH, SO DO THE GIRLS. IT'S CALLED RESPECT FOR ONE ANOTHER!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-07 16:30:44 · answer #11 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋