For the 6 years we have been married he has never said one romantic thing to me, but today I found him with 2 of his friends giving advice on the things to write in their letters. I am so very sad. We have argued about him needing to be more romantic with me, but instead he is giving very good advice to his friends.....The things I want to hear, and I need to hear......I asked him why he don't with me he just said " what the f*** for"? I am lost and hurt.....What should I do? Why can't he be with me that way?
2006-08-07 09:20:01 · 5 answers · asked by wayladuley 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He obviously feels your not deserving of such compliments, that is not a good situation to be in...bad for you because you want to hear it and bad for him because he doesn't see his mate in such a romantic way...this is a time to work on such an issue or let its ugliness ruin your relationship...seek professional help to get the spark back into the marriage.
2006-08-07 09:45:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you shouldn't be married to the guy if he dosen't appreciate you and do what his friends are doing for their loved ones. You poor thing... move on!
2006-08-07 16:25:42 · answer #2 · answered by kristinaanneblack 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell him to act like your husband and respect your feelings or he can get the heck out.
2006-08-07 16:26:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT'S SILLY AND ALL,BUT, YOU MAYBE A CRITIC. NOT ON PURPOSE. IT'S KIND OF STRANGE. BUT, YOU LIVE WITH HIM AND HE REALLY MUST CARE ABOUT WHAT YOU WOULD THINK, OR THE FACE YOU MAY HAVE WHEN HE HANDS IT TO YOU. MAKE HIM ONE, SEE WHAT HE DOES FROM THERE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-07 16:27:03 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds like a d i c k head
2006-08-07 16:24:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋