just tell the truth you will feel so much better arter you do good luck to and your baby.
2006-08-07 09:21:33
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answered by Anonymous
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You lied once and ruined your credibility, but even worse you may have irreparably damaged the reputation and any future job of your band teacher. The only thing to do is come clean and admit that you did lie and why. They may not forgive you, but I think you're going to have a harder time forgiving yourself. Just hope the band teacher did not hear your lie. If he has, go to him immediately, apologize, explain why you felt the need to do such a stupid, childish, hurtful act, and only hope he will accept your apology. It may be too much to expect him to forgive you--especially if he's married with children. Then, if the story has made the rounds of school, go to the Principal and tell him the truth. He may be able to do damage control. I'd also say be pretty sure your parents are going to hear the news from someone else first.
2006-08-07 09:25:10
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answered by goldie 6
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Why did you lie to them like that? Was it for attention? You are most likely going to lose some friends. You should tell them because if you don't they WILL find out you aren't pregnant because of no belly. You gotta apologize a million times and hope they will still be your friends. Even if they forgive you they probably won't trust you anymore. They also probably told the whole school! You could get your band teacher fired! Girl, you are in some deep ****.
2006-08-07 09:24:59
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answered by songbird 6
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Why on earth would you lie about that? Wow. OK, the only thing you can do is tell them "I lied and I'm so sorry" and then try to explain why you did such a weird thing. Don't be surprised if they're not your friends anymore. They're never going to trust you again ...and they shouldn't until you get some serious counseling. Perhaps you should get a counselor and discuss this with her before you drop the bomb on your friends. At least, you can tell them that you're getting help for your problem and maybe they'll forgive you.
2006-08-07 09:21:25
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answered by Answers to Nurse 3
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sheesh - I don't really know what kind of answer to give you. Are you pregnant? or did you make up the entire pregnancy as well as blame it on the band teacher? What part is the lie? You need to get your act together, seriously. You could ruin his entire life if something like that were blamed on him. Stick to telling the truth, about everything. One thing for sure, lies have a way of coming back to bite you in the azz, when you least expect it. Ever hear of the little boy who cried wolf? I hope you are lucky enough to get your act together & get life on track in a positive way.
2006-08-07 09:26:25
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answered by pumpkin 6
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Why would you even tell someone a lie like that. Not only have you put that band teacher in jeopardy with your lies but your friends will no longer trust you. It's people like you that need locked up for the lies and rumors you spread. If I were that band teacher you would be court for defamation character, hoping your happy *** would go to jail. Also would sue for mega bucks.
You're in a lot of trouble, girl, if he finds out.
2006-08-07 09:24:11
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answered by msjudy58 3
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You know really - my friends would be the last people I would think of. I think first you need to aplogize to your band teacher. You could have put his job in jeopardy. Secondly, if you were strong enough to lie to your own friends - then you have to be just as strong to eat crow and be embarassed and be humiliated....that's the price you pay for starting a very ugly and distructive rumor for another human being's life. I hope you learned something from this.
2006-08-07 09:23:12
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answered by longhats 5
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Ouch...that was a mistake. Don't approach the band teacher. Tell your friends you messed up and you are not pregnant by the band teacher. Are you pregnant at all? Talk to councilor at school and tell him/her about the lie, even if the sh!t hasn't hit the fan yet, because it will soon.
2006-08-07 09:25:42
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answered by t79a 5
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WOW! This is a huge lie. But its gonna have to come out eventually. If you thought you were pregnant by him and turned out you are not then they may understand. But if you just lied about having sex with the band teacher and being pregnant then you may just lose your friends. But obviously they will find out eventually. So you should just be honest with them.
2006-08-07 09:22:02
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answered by momma2jaz 3
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You should have never lied because that band teacher could have lost his job if not already because you were being irresponsible and selfish.
Just come out and tell your friends you lied and be prepared to not having friends because people won't be able to trust you anymore.
2006-08-07 09:24:54
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answered by Coast2CoastChat.com 5
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Wow...um just tell them, then confess to the school and the community. Sometimes young girls do stupic thigs...and yes u did by lying...you are going to probably lose some of your frineds as well as get in trouble at school if not expelled. This is something you are going to deal with...life is going to suck for a while for you...but its not over...just think of how you have ruined someone elses life by lying though.
2006-08-07 09:22:39
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answered by melty56 2
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