2006-08-07 08:52:50 · 25 answers · asked by lyndsey H 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
It's not any of their business, as long as you can support your baby financually, physically , and emotionally then everything is fine hun. Also if your still with the daddy of the first and you guys think your ready for a new baby and ready to really start a family then go for it. Just remember they are expensive and take lots of time
2006-08-07 08:58:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter what other ppl think, as long as you feel ready then thats all that matters because in a year's time they'll be bored of talkin bout it n you'll have your own little family in full swing! I was in the same position i had a baby @ 18 and i planned to start tryin for another baby but i wanted to wait til he was around 10 months, unfortunately he got Meningitus when he was 7 months he was really ill, but being the little fighter he is he pulled threw but that put me off tryin for a while... that was 2 years ago i'm 21 now and SO desperate for another baby, I think its all down to maternal instincts and you cant fight them, so stick with it and only worry bout you n ya family. Good Luck x ..... GO WITH YA HEART... whether you've got all the money in the world or nothing at all you'll always find a way to manage!
2006-08-07 16:07:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares what people will think, if it is what you want to do in life then go for it, i am 20 and i have a 3 year old and a 1 year old and i am still with their dad and we are married and we both work. Having a family is all i ever wanted and i am doing really well for myself and i am so happy. If you had a different ambition for example you wanted to be a nurse, or a hairdresser, or a vet etc.. Then noone would have any problems with that, but you want to be a mother. So go for it, dont worry about what other people think, they are probley jealous.
Good luck and i hope you enjoy your family as much as i do mine!
2006-08-09 11:22:47 · answer #3 · answered by noone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your concern shouldn't be what other people think. The big concern is that your body is still trying to recuperate from just having a baby. Wait until your baby is at least one year before trying for the second. And, do you really want two babies in diapers? I would space them out just a little bit so you can really enjoy each child. Good luck!
2006-08-07 15:57:36 · answer #4 · answered by Precious 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not up to other people. Someone will always bring you down if that's the kind of person they are. If you can care for another then go for it, but I'd personally leave it a little longer just to recuperate your body to give your next baby the best start in life (a healthy mum).
2006-08-09 07:24:24 · answer #5 · answered by Abi twin mum 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well my cousin is 20 with 2 kids and the daddy was barely around. now he's saved, working and going 2 church(so is she) but the point is YOUR 19! can you afford to raise another child, do u work, does the father work, how will you support this child. these are only a few things you need to think about before thinking about anything. i'm no psychiatrist but i know enough to be 14 and a 1/2 and it's not worth it. you still have the rest of your life to thiink about. please email me about my advice at k.smith_62191@yahoo.com it was nice talking to you, bye. make good decisions!!
2006-08-07 16:02:57 · answer #6 · answered by keyla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If anyone says any of the things you are worried they might say - tell them you could have easily had twins and had to cope anyway so what's the big deal.
You can't please all of the people all of the time - if you let yourself get guilt tripped by adult opinion now - then 2 kids are gonna worry you even more. Good Luck!!
2006-08-08 11:07:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not worry about what people will think. You should worry about how the hell you are gonna raise these 2 kids. Having kids is not just about poping them out, you need to feed them, dress them, provide medical insurance, a college education, etc. etc... the list is endless. That's what you should worry about, unless you plan for welfare to take care of them forever.
2006-08-07 16:01:40 · answer #8 · answered by marisanj 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are an adult. And if you can financially, mentally, and physically afford and take care of them YOURSELF (No parents help). Then only you can decide that. In my opinion you should wait unit your baby is out of diapers and then try to have another one. That way you will not go crazy and go broke. Good Luck!!!
Try to enjoy your teenage-hood once it is gone....Its gone you will have the rest of your life to have children......Just try to enjoy and spoil the one you have for a while.....They need that one-on-one mommy attention!!
2006-08-07 16:03:05 · answer #9 · answered by MARI 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To give a good answer, would need more information. Peoples opinion would vary depending on a few factors. If you could let us know if you are married/in a long term relationship with the babies father, if you work, who you live with, if you claim benefits we could give a better answer :)
2006-08-07 15:57:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋