Hey you guys and girls . Here is my thing and I need everyone’s opinion. actually i need help. I just found out that my husband has a hobby; he goes to the stores and takes pics using his camera phone of women’s butts. He tells me that it is Ok, every man does it and women do not mind it. What do you think? Does every man really take pictures of women’s buts at the stores, and does every woman really do not mind? Am i being crazy for being upset with him?
2006-08-07 08:35:17 · 23 answers · asked by nataliefiedler 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You see, he does like my butt. he find me attractive. he also find almost every other woman attractive. He watches porn a lot( any porn will do on any format), his computer is full of pics of women (clothes off or on). I do not like it, he thinks it is my low self esteem...
2006-08-07 08:50:42 · update #1
There is actually a Web site where people send in cell-phone pix of women's bottoms; someone sent me the URL a couple years ago. I looked at it, laughed a bit, shook my head, and went on with my life (which, I have to admit, includes a certain amount of looking at women's bottoms.)
Does every man do it? I haven't. But recently my wife took a picture of our male friend's bottom as he was leaning forward in a chair in front of her, with about an inch of, uhhh, cleavage visible. Yes, alcohol was involved. :-) She showed the picture to me; based on my reaction, I think it's safe to say that I am in fact completely heterosexual...
Do women really not mind? I'm sure that there are women who wouldn't object -- I mean, he's not sneaking into restrooms or changing rooms and taking pictures of women with their pants down, is he?
I'm equally sure that if you were to follow your husband around and loudly announce, in the store, "Hey lady, that man just took a picture of your butt!" whenever he does this, sooner or later you'd end up visiting your husband in the hospital after surgeons remove his cell phone camera from HIS butt.
2006-08-07 09:00:24 · answer #1 · answered by Scott F 5 · 7⤊ 0⤋
LMAO! Hell no! Not all men do that. My husband does not do that. In fact this is the first time I've heard of a married man doing this. Your husband certainly has a weird hobby. What's the matter... isn't your butt good enough for him? And for your other question...yes, I do mind if a total stranger did that to me. I might just turn around and smack him across the face! A stranger taking a pic of my *** without my consent is a form of harassment to me.
Yes, you have every right to be upset with him. He's a married man for crying out loud. LOL! You should be good enough for him.
2006-08-07 15:51:11 · answer #2 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he takes photos of women without their knowledge or permission, it is like a form of 'rape'. Yes women mind and no not every man does this. My husband says if a man does this it is a bad sign. The porn on the computer is too. Take it from another man, be concerned.
2006-08-07 15:55:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Not everyone does it. In fact, I don't really know anyone that does. However, in the world according to your husband, they do...so I guess I should start, lol.
If you feel uncomfortable with what he's doing then let me know that you'd feel more comfortable if he would stop. If it's a once and a while thing for giggles, then no harm no foul.
However if this is a habit, then there may be some underlying issues, and not only is he disrepecting you, he's disrespecting the women he's photographing (assuming he's doing it without their consent).
2006-08-07 15:47:06 · answer #4 · answered by -J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. All men do not take pictures of women's butts. And women who find out certainly mind. It's not ok, it's invasion of privacy. You're not crazy for being upset with him. He needs to get a life.
2006-08-07 15:42:57 · answer #5 · answered by leo509 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mr. Chivalry says, "Men and women look. As far as taking pictures, not all men do that. It poses as evidence that this could be one of the side girls. I'm not saying jump to conclusions, but taking pictures of other women's @$$es is not a hobby that should be tolerated."
Mr. Chivalry has spoken.
2006-08-07 15:41:56 · answer #6 · answered by L Jeezy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion i think ur butt is not the butt that ur man is looking 4. Seems like he's searching for the right butt to let go of ur butt. And no it's not right for ur man to go out there to take pix of other women butts.
2006-08-07 15:47:07 · answer #7 · answered by Jersey Girl 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Of course every man doesn't do it. That one of the most immature things I've heard of an adult doing. Do you like it? No....so why would the rest of us. I can see where it's fun for him but it's a bit on the pervy side if you ask me.
2006-08-07 15:41:54 · answer #8 · answered by Pardonthepun 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, despite my desire to do this, I'd be too afraid of being caught. Doubt my wife would care to see me do this either. Can't speak on women's behalf, but I'm sure some dont' mind.
2006-08-07 15:40:51 · answer #9 · answered by dwitejones 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm
i bet you have him right there and are saying "well see mister how many people really do this"
well being a man, and having been in similar spots im going to say
YES OF COURSE WE ALL DO IT
and of course our wives and girlfriends dont mind
2006-08-07 15:40:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋