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I caught my ex cheating on me in the bed we had shared. We dated for a few years. He really tore me apart. I dont think he truly knows how bad it hurt seeing him naked on top of her. Do you believe in Karma? and good things happen to those who wait?

2006-08-07 08:32:44 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture Other - Society & Culture

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Yes, I definetly believe in karma so you don't have anything to worry about because what goes around comes around- you just go on with your life and act like he ain't even there, he'll miss. lol- don't worry about him.

2006-08-07 08:38:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

In Karma thought, unhealthy karma can not be defeated via doing well karmas. The account for unhealthy karmas are separate. And the account of well karmas are separate. The results of karma can not be mitigated. It needs to be loved or suffered. There is a Sanskrit Sloka: "Avasyam anubhogthavyam kritham karma subha asubham; naa bhugtham ksheeyathe karma kalpa koti sathairapi". Meaning; We have got to endure the consequences of our karmas, if it is well or unhealthy. No karma gets erased via doing different deeds. Sometime we must suppose that we aren't doing and that nature is bringing this sort of condition to drive us to take a average path to adopt that motion. There is a pronouncing in Mahanarayana Upanishad: "Kamokarsheet Manyurakarsheet Namo Namah". It is an difficult factor, which I don't desire to give an explanation for right here. Those who recognise can fully grasp.

2016-08-28 11:19:29 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

I do believe in karma and reaping what you sow. If you caught your ex in the act cheating on you, 9 times outta 10, he'll one day experience the same hurt he caused you. If he was able to stoop so low as to have another woman in the bed you shared, then he meant you no good from the beginning. Any man that has respect for his woman would never bring another woman into their bed. Not only had he lost respect for you, but he didn't have respect for himself nor the female he was in bed with. That makes him a jerk! Set your standards and stick to them when looking for the next guy. Good things does come to those who wait so be patient and don't spend all your time looking for love, when you begin to love yourself, love will find you.

2006-08-07 08:40:55 · answer #3 · answered by Pear Cakes 2 · 0 0

Karma is not what most people think. We are the judge of our own lives, and through each cycle of life, we review our lives after death and give an honest appraisal of the impact we had on others by feeling it first hand coming back to us. If we judge what we did, we might take on karma in the next life that can balance what we felt was an injustice, and if we positively appraise our good works, we may attract blessings into our lives that support us to continue doing good. So we create all of the karma, and decide upon it from a level of enlightened truth before coming here, so that we can learn to balance what is out of balance, and yet we have the potential to become conscious of this process of review during life, and learn not to judge ourselves or other, and to positively appraise the good we do, and recognize when we denied opportunities to do good. We can learn from our mistakes, even while we are alive, and not wait until after death to sort through what really happened. In other words, what I am saying is that karma is not a punishment or a reward. It is a process of creating balance so that we can perfect ourselves and become masters of love and light, and yet we can transcend the need for the karmic cycle by just living through the heart and following a path of compassion and surrender to the One. Your boyfriend will probably judge himself later on if he doesn't already, and choose to balance this in some way, through some karmic story that give him the opportunity to make a different decision than he did this time with you. You can see him as a soul on a journey towards balance and perfection, just as you are, and we all are. In other words, don't be attached. You will be rewarded for your good works in life, not for the pain that others caused you. Acknowledge your own suffering and don't wait for someone or something outside of yourself to do that for you. Then just love those who cross your path and find joy in those who share in the bond of love, and let this become a stronger memory that the memory of being cheated on. So many people base their life's story on the traumatic memories instead of the fun and joyful memories. When you focus on memories of pain all the time, you will recreate those experiences, but if you focus on memories of joy all the time, you will find yourself living in joy!

2006-08-07 08:48:38 · answer #4 · answered by Peace Angel 2 · 0 0

Yes, I do believe in karma but most of all I believe everything happens for a reason, sorry to sound like im preaching but God had you see that for a reason..dont worry too much about it get yourself together and move on things will be better for you without him in your life...

2006-08-07 08:41:43 · answer #5 · answered by brneyes7190 3 · 0 0

What would be the karma to that? Him seeing someone on top of you? I believe you reap what you sew, but if you are forgiven by God that is the end of it, unless someone feel they need to make you pay. In that case it may come around, but if God is on the throne of your heart it will be manageable. The best thing to do is to move on and continue to plant good seed so you will reap good seed. Suppose you make him pay back and he feel the need to make you pay back again? When does it stop? All ping pong games cease when the ball is not returned.
Peace.

2006-08-07 08:42:07 · answer #6 · answered by happylife22842 4 · 0 0

Quoting from the Bhagavad Gita, Lord Krishna says: "I shall now describe nishkama karma yoga, the path of selfless action. You have a right to perform your natural prescribed duties, but you are not entitled to any fruits of that action. You should neither act with desire to enjoy the fruits of your work, nor, as a result, should you be attached to neglecting your duties."

According to the Vedas, if we sow goodness, we will reap goodness; if we sow evil, we will reap evil. Karma refers to the totality of our actions and their concomitant reactions in this and previous lives, all of which determines our future. The conquest of karma lies in intelligent action and dispassionate reaction. Not all karma rebounds immediately.

You are looking for IMMEDIATE ACTION.

2006-08-07 08:42:46 · answer #7 · answered by Alpha-Male 1 · 0 0

I believe in karma and people getting what they deserve good or bad in this life or the next.

2006-08-07 08:37:13 · answer #8 · answered by Jake S 5 · 0 0

no i dont believe in karma but i do belive in getting him back......or just break up with him if hes cheatin on you IN BED he isnt the true type of guy. what an a s s hole. just break up with him and continue on with your own life without him, he'll suffer on his own. he doesnt deserve you.

2006-08-07 08:44:16 · answer #9 · answered by The Ren 3 · 0 0

no i dont, your future / life is what you make it to be.

2006-08-07 08:39:22 · answer #10 · answered by firstknight 2 · 0 0

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