I used to have a guy friend I had a huge crush on. He was pretty nice to me we became very good frieds at one point before he moved out of state. He and his now wife left without telling anyone and I have not seen him since. I tried to contact him but his wife was so jealous she flipped out!
I just found out they moved back to Georgia and I know where he works at but I dont know if I should try to contact him or what?
He was my music teacher at one point so I thought about writting a song for him in lou of a note. I just want him to know how different I am now than I was back then. Should I call him? or leave a note or a song? He didn't bother to call me!
2006-08-07 08:13:36 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I dont want to be with him I just need to say good bye
2006-08-07 08:39:13 · update #1
Seems to me like your obsessed with him. If he didn't call that means he doesn't want any contact with you. He's a married man and respects his wife. What would you do if someone was obsessing over your husband and wrote him a song or a letter? I think it would upset you. I don't think he really cares how much you've changed the point is you still have a crush on him and in my opinion your turning into a stalker. Find someone else and move on.
2006-08-07 08:24:54 · answer #1 · answered by CLM 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, he by and large learn it. And it by and large did make him consider a bit of. Although, if he calls you I could now not be given his name. Bad boys have some way of schmoozing you again into their lifestyles. I have a historical past of courting unhealthy boys, and whilst I ultimately discovered that I used to be such a lot larger than that, I began courting the reverse, and now I am an excessively fortunately married lady. I consider you probably did an excessively well factor of breaking apart with him. That may be very clever. Now, it is simply staying broke up with him. I would not endorse writing to any extent further letters or calling or some thing. Just name it well. Sometimes it's larger to permit all that out. I can see what you imply approximately getting a bit of closure through getting out a few phrases you could have desired to get out. If he did not learn it, then oh good. The factor is, you acquired it out. Now, check out courting men that you would not mainly date. That is the first-rate recommendation I used to be ever given. As some distance as courting besides.
2016-08-28 11:21:01 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go! You don't need to distrupt their lives any more than you already have. If he didn't call you before, he obviously values his wife and family more than this "fling" with you.
2006-08-07 08:19:34 · answer #3 · answered by m27jean 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋